Keri.....In Transit

Carson's Story

2012-01-05T09:40:00.000-08:00

You may remember reading previous blogs about my nephew Carson. At six weeks old, on May 30, 2011, he went into cardiac arrest at home. He's now a healthy boy.

Here is a video we made to tell his story through photos

Here is his full story as told by his mom (my sister Tara):

I had just fed him. I put him down, and he started to cry - a different cry I will never forget hearing. I picked him up. He was clammy. His eyes were rolled back into his head. He was gasping / moaning. Something was horribly wrong.

God's timing was perfect, even when mine wasn't. I called my husband (firefighter / paramedic) at his station. In complete panic, I said "the baby is not right. I am calling 911" and I hung up. As I dialed 911, Carson went limp in my arms.

My toddler, Creighton, and I road in the front seat of the Rescue. Suddenly, I heard a familiar voice from the back of the Rescue saying "he is fine, Babe." It was my husband Chris. He had jumped in the back of the Rescue, and was resuscitating his own son. I couldn't bring myself to look in the back. The more my husband said "he is fine," the more I knew he wasn't. When we left our neighborhood, we met the AMR ambulance. We stopped in the middle of the street. A medic, Alex, got out of the AMR ambulance and into our Rescue. I kept thinking, this can't be normal. I have never seen this happen when I am behind an ambulance. This can't be good.

At another street crossing, we met Engine 47. I heard someone yell from the back of the Rescue, "we will take any help we can get". For a second time, we stopped in the middle of the street and a medic, Jayson, got in our Rescue.

Carson was diagnosed with a rare Congenital Heart Defect called ALCAPA (Anomalous Left Coronary Artery from the Pulmonary Artery). He presented in a full code, was shocked 3 times, and was on a ventilator pending Open Heart Surgery.

We were transferred to Sunrise Children's Hospital. Carson was scheduled for open heart surgery the following day. Our family started to arrive in Vegas, one by one. When my sister Robin arrived, she immediately said "lets pray over him." I will never forget her saying "God, I know you have a plan for little Carson. We are just asking that you don't take him, that you leave him here with us. I know he will do great things for you, God."

People all over the world were praying for Carson. Dr. Ciccolo, who I thank God for every single day, was to perform the Open Heart. I was so afraid. The risk of death from the surgery, Dr. Ciccolo told me, was 15%. They had thought at the time that Carson had also had a stroke. They had thought that he had a bleed in his brain.

God took care of every concern, one by one. He made it through the surgery. He survived having an open chest for two days. He was able to have his chest closed at the end of the week. Dozens of people contacted me to say Carson's story changed their lives.

If you would like to help support children with Congenital Heart Defects, we invite you to join Team Carson (click here to learn more) in the Walk with the Heart of a Child, Saturday February 25, 2012. If you can't make the walk in Las Vegas, you can still be a virtual team member. Thank you for reading and watching Carson's story!

Knit-a-square in Texas

2011-12-20T15:30:00.000-08:00

I've wrote several blogs about the partnerships between Knit-a-square, Ten Thousand Homes, and a group of women (the Knit Wits) from Rolling Hills Community Church in Lago Vista, Texas. Last year (click here to read more) my friend Mmapula (Megan) and I met the Knit Wits and later organized a way for Ten Thousand Homes to receive all the squares they send to Knit-a-square in South Africa.

Throughout the year, I enjoyed getting Africans and outreach teams together to sew the squares and distribute completed blankets to the children in Mbonisweni and Dwaleni. It has been incredible to see the amount of fruit resulting from the partnerships of the three organizations (click here to read more and here to see how much fun we've had with this project).

Yesterday Mmapula and I went to Lago Vista to see our friends again. They just completed 4,250 squares! A few of the members also recently celebrated their 80th birthdays!

I shared about the impact I saw them making in South Africa. This project has provided women in Texas an opportunity to use their skills to make a difference in the lives of many. My friend Kacy is now their point person in South Africa. However, they told me before I left that our friendship won't end just because I'm no longer in South Africa. They will also continue to keep in touch with Mmapula. This group of wonderful women make me smile. I'm reminded we all have something to give and gain something in return when we serve others.

In League City, Texas....

2011-12-19T16:36:00.000-08:00

I've met a lot of great people the past few years who have come to South Africa on outreach teams. This past August, my friend Kacy's home church (now called Citymark Church) sent their second outreach team. I had the chance to get to know Mary, one of the team members. Recently, I told Mary I was in Austin and she sent me a note asking if she could fly me to Houston for the weekend (she had a free ticket she needed to use). Grateful for her generosity, I gladly accepted the offer.

Saturday the church hosted a Christmas in the City event at a local park. Their band played and there were many different activities for visitors of all ages. It was a great time.

Citymark Church currently meets in a school on Sundays. They are in the process of remodeling a new building to relocate to in January. After service on Sunday, Pastor Steven Yoes gave a tour of the new building. He cast the vision, and the church prayed over the property. Steven later told me he was really excited I was there during this time. Citymark Church partners with Ten Thousand Homes and gave money to build a few houses in South Africa. When Steven prayed a few months ago about whether or not to give money to Ten Thousand Homes, he felt like God said "if you build home in South Africa, I'll provide for your home (their new building) in Texas." They are excited to continue to be a part of a bridge between Texas and South Africa.

Pastor Steven Yoes and myself

Another friend Laura Chaffin, who I again met through Kacy in South Africa, also met up with us for lunch on Sunday. It was so fun to see her - and pick up where we left off a few months ago.

Laura, myself, & Mary

The weekend went too quickly! I enjoyed hearing about what was happening with my Texas friends as well as the opportunity to talk about and reflect on the time spent in South Africa. I remain thankful for the friendships made throughout the world the past few years.

In Austin....

2011-12-16T08:37:00.000-08:00

I'm in Austin, Texas, this week visiting my friend Mmapula (Megan). Our friends Jaceson and Virginia (and their 14 month old baby Seth) stopped through on their way to Louisiana. We hadn't all been together since we finished our Peace Corps service in South Africa over two years ago. We also met up with our friend Chris. There was a lot of laughing, catching up, and reminiscing about our time together in South Africa.

from left to right: Jaceson, Chris, Virginia, me, & Mmapula

I love the fact we have a bond that can't be broken despite time, distance apart, and life circumstances.

Accomplishing Goals on the Las Vegas Strip

2011-12-06T20:41:00.008-08:00

This past weekend my sisters Robin and Tara completed their first half marathon! They joined 44,000 participants in the Rock 'n' Roll Marathon & 1/2 Marathon in Las Vegas. It was the worlds largest night time race. I went along as their cheering section and had a blast.

pre-race photo: Robin and Tara

Robin & myself

There were participants of all ages and fitness levels. Elvis was represented by many runners. Many brides came dressed for their run through weddings. Other runners wore tutu costumes and electric lights. Perhaps the wildest (and possibly most uncomfortable?) outfit I saw was a man wearing nothing but a g-string, running shoes, and a smile.

Each participant came with his or her own story and reason for running or walking. That is what I love about these events. Whether you are the marathon winner from Kenya, an elite runner seeking to make the Olympic trials, or a hard working mom wanting to get in shape, each participant comes with a goal and takes a risk to achieve it.

The action shot photo from mile 12 (I joined them at this point for the last mile or so)

Race finishers!!! Good job!!

Tara "tebowing" after the race (as portrayed on http://tebowing.com/)

After finishing the race, my sister Robin said "I never thought I could do something like this." She did a great job! Life would be boring without risks and pushing your self to do something you didn't think you could do. So what is it for you? What is something you've always wanted to do? What's stopping you from taking the risk?

Endings and New Beginnings

2011-11-29T10:15:00.008-08:00

Leaving Ten Thousand Homes and South Africa. Some things are harder than you anticipate. This time was no exception. I slept most of the 16 hour flight from Johannesburg to New York. I guess I was mentally and emotionally tired.

Endings. Comes with a bit of denial. Comes with a loss. Loss of community, loss of daily interactions with friends. Comes with a wrestling of identity, re-evaluating the fact I am not defined by the work I do. Changing thought patterns.

Letting go. Knowing your role in the kingdom. I had a dream I was visiting the Ten Thousand Homes base in South Africa. There were new families, staff members, and beautiful flowers everywhere. It looked like paradise! Then someone told me about all the great things happening there. The property was paid for and the ministry was growing. At first I frowned at the thought “it is happening without me.” Then I was immediately reminded my role within the organization was complete, I had the pleasure of being a part of the pioneering phase. This dream was a comfort to me and a confirmation that Ten Thousand Homes will grow and prosper in 2012.

Thankful. Thankful for the things I learned from each one of my friends in South Africa. Thankful for the memories and opportunities. Thankful for the people who faithfully supported me the past few years. Remembering the good things.

this video by Kacy Chaffin features Sihle (Pastor S), Witness, Tercia, and Mzwandile singing a song they wrote for me

New Beginnings. There is more to come. I’m currently being reminded who God is: creative, a wild risk taker, longing to share the adventure of life with us. I'm beginning to see with new eyes. Waiting expectantly. Hopeful.

An Evening of Pure Worship, Encouragement, & Celebration

2011-11-23T06:02:00.011-08:00

As a part of my "going away" I hosted an evening of worship and celebration with the Mbonisweni youth I've come to know and love. With the help of my friends Stanley and Lennon, I hand delivered invitations to each of their homes. The invitation told them it would be a night of CELEBRATING all God has done within them and throughout their community the past few years.

After bringing the group to the Ten Thousand Homes base, they led us in worship and dancing. Please see photos and videos below, provided by Kacy Chaffin.

and now the little people, Lifa and Blessing join...

Lifa and Blessing keep on dancing....

Before the party, I prayed and wrote each person a note of encouragement. There is something powerful about speaking God's truth over someone in a group setting and then agreeing together in prayer. So one by one, each person to came forward and I read their note aloud. Once 5 notes were read, we stopped to pray for them.

Speaking truth with Zodwa, she IS beautiful....

Stanley did a fantastic job as the MC of the evening! The church had been fasting that day so I thought they'd want to eat early in the evening, but Stanley sensed we shouldn't stop to eat, that we should continue worshiping / praying until everyone was called to the front. Pastor Sthembiso and the youth also encouraged me with kind speeches, and surprised me with special music they prepared.

Youth members Witness and Sihle (he prefers being called Pastor S) wrote this song and Blessing did a great job joining them!

Two and a half hours later, we ate tacos together. It was an amazing evening and will remain one of my fondest memories of the time spent in South Africa. What an incredible experience to know this group of young people and watch them grow! I know they are and will continue to make a huge impact in South Africa and beyond. A big thank you to the youth, Kacy, Mimi, Eric, Lindsey, Stanley, Lennon, Lynn, and Koekie for all your help!

Hindsight Perspective

2011-11-12T13:42:00.006-08:00

As many of you know from my recent newsletter, my time with Ten Thousand Homes in South Africa has come to an end. Though my heart longs to stay in Africa, next week I’ll be flying to Las Vegas to enter a time of rest and seeking God’s direction for the next step.

As I’m busy wrapping up things here in South Africa, I am leaving with a thankful heart. Thankful for the relationships and experiences over the past 4+ years. Thankful for the lessons learned and for the strength God’s given to stick out challenges.

When I came to South Africa in 2007 as a Peace Corps Volunteer, I questioned my purpose here a lot. I didn’t know living in two different villages with South African host families would provide invaluable lessons and preparation for working within the culture. When I left the village to come work with Ten Thousand Homes it was hard to be surrounded by Americans who were in the very beginning of pioneering this organization. I missed my host family. I missed the daily village African interactions. Then I was a part of building key relationships with Africans in the communities Ten Thousand Homes partners with.... and a light bulb went on as to why I had the experiences I did.

After finishing the Peace Corps, I returned to work with Ten Thousand Homes as a full-time missionary. In the midst of conflict, disappointment, and organizational chaos, I asked God “why did you bring me back here?” I learned I didn't just come back to serve the orphaned and vulnerable, God also brought me back to refine my character and teach me how to embrace a spiritual family. Though painful at times, the lessons learned were worth it. I also made some of the best friends anyone could have.

So now as I ask the question “God why Las Vegas (it’s not even close to being similar to Africa)?” I’m left with a peace, knowing the answer will come with time. Soon I will have the hindsight perspective God always gives step by step.

So what ever question you are asking God in your life.....know that the answer will eventually come.....sometimes in a surprising way......and God’s timing (despite our impatience) is always perfect.

Yesterday in Dwaleni

2011-10-21T03:11:00.006-07:00

My friend Kacy just shared this photo album with me. Click on the photo above to view the pictures she took at the feeding program and construction site (Busi's house) in Dwaleni yesterday. The boy in this picture is named Kevin. He arrived to the feeding with two other little ones, Charity and Tommy. The volunteers tried to figure out who he belongs to and we discovered he is a relative of Nandi, a girl we've known since 2008. When the feeding was over Nandi strapped him to her back and accompanied Charity and Tommy on their walk home.

After the feeding, Kacy, Lennon, Stanley, and I went to Busi's house with four youth from Mbonisweni. We worshiped together for the second week in a row. Neighbors came. A testimony or two was shared. When we left we joked that this was a new church, taking place on Thursday afternoons. Exciting things are happening in Dwaleni. More prayer is needed and we see prayers being answered. Thursday afternoons have become one of my favorite times of the week.

Creating HOPE and HOME Through Worship

2011-10-13T10:37:00.009-07:00

Lately I've been pondering how every person, regardless of income, is uniquely designed by God and has a unique purpose. This led me to think about how to awaken the creativity already placed within the volunteers and children we get to work with.

I have seen one of my purposes over the years here as encouraging and empowering the local volunteers we work with to positively impact orphans and vulnerable children. I believe they will have the greatest impact in the lives of the children. When the youth from Mbonisweni stitched the blankets together a couple of weeks ago, they said they wanted to give them to the family we are building a home for in Dwaleni and I was excited! You see we met a lot of these youth in 2009, when they helped a YWAM team build a home (click here to read about that home) and now they had another opportunity to positively impact a child headed household.

Today we took three of the youth to meet the family in Dwaleni. Busi is the head of this household, she's 18 years old, and has four younger siblings. After arriving and greeting, I asked the youth to sing a couple of songs, and then they gave Busi's family the blankets. All photos by Kacy Chaffin.

Witness & Busi

Myself, Sibusiso, Witness, & Busi

Starting from the left: youth member Pastor S (as he prefers to be called), volunteer Zandile, and Busi's younger brother Anthony

After presenting the blankets, the youth continued to lead us in worship songs. It was powerful. Neighbors stopped to look at what was happening and Busi was full of smiles! When we finished one song, Sibongile (one of the volunteers we work with in Dwaleni) asked for another song. As we worshiped, I thought about how God was bringing light into the community. I LOVED seeing Busi light up, smile, dance, and sing. It was my first time to see her this alive, a barrier was lifted. God was present.

On the way home, Kacy said "today HOPE and HOME (the vision of Ten Thousand Homes) was created through worship." She was right. Our visiting friend from Texas said "that was one of the most powerful times of worship I've ever experienced." We saw creativity channeled from the Mbonisweni youth.....using their gifts to encourage and bring God's presence to Busi's family.

My Kids Visit, Part 2

2011-10-10T11:28:00.004-07:00

On their last day at the base, we printed photos and the kids each made memory books of our time together.

Tankiso wrote "I love swimming" in his language

Yolanda wrote about her time playing with her new friend Joshua

Later that evening a few staff members got together for dessert. All three kids "gave a speech" about what they put in their memory books. I was so proud of them!

On the drive home the next day, we made a couple of stops for photo opportunities.

the beautiful scenery along the way

goofing off on the dirt road into their village

posing with the rest of the family

It was a great few days. I saw community through different eyes and (most importantly) the kids seemed to have a great time!

My Kids Visit, Part 1

2011-10-09T12:08:00.008-07:00

It had been a year and a half since my last visit to Ga-Matamanyane, Limpopo, where I spent a small part of my Peace Corps Service (Click here to read about my last visit). Last week I made the long drive to the village to pick up my host brothers Papi (now 13 years old) and Tankiso (now 8 years old), as well as their neighbor Yolanda (she's 14 years old). Since they were on school holiday, they came to stay with me for a few days.

The first morning, the kids each experienced a hot shower for the first time. There was lots of laughter, and Tankiso asked if he could have another one later in the day. Then they played outside but it was a really cold day!

We went to the feeding program in Mbonsiweni and Kacy gave them hats to keep warm.

Yolanda, me, Papi, and Tankiso (in front). Photo by Kacy Chaffin

Before we went to sleep that night, I asked Yolanda if she wanted to pray together. She said "yes we must pray for sunshine tomorrow so we can swim." So we did. And the next morning the boys woke us up singing "we gonna swim, we gonna swim today....." Yolanda told the boys "the sun is shining because we prayed!!"

The boys didn't waste time getting in the pool and making new friends. Even though Tankiso and Papi speak very little English, I saw that no common language was needed in order for all the kids to have fun!

Papi and Tankiso

Papi helping Zoe into the pool

Papi swimming with Zoe

Ariel and Tankiso getting ready to jump in

After all that swimming the kids were tired and hungry! I cooked and introduced them to the term "woo woo food." This is a term our friend Lennon uses when we eat food containing meat (basically nice food : ).

Stay tuned for more stories and pictures of our time together!

Knit-a-Square Blanket Recipients!

2011-10-07T05:49:00.006-07:00

Yesterday the volunteers in Dwaleni gave blankets they completed to three children at the feeding program. (All photos by Kacy Chaffin)

Meet Thando

Innocent

Innocent again...

Nobesuthu

Proud volunteers Belina and Christiana (they stiched the squares together) with the children

Thanks again to knit-a-square and our friends in Lago Vista, Texas for partnering with Ten Thousand Homes!

Sewing Parties!

2011-10-03T12:13:00.005-07:00

This past weekend we invited the youth from Mbonisweni to our base for a "Sewing Party." Since they are on school holiday, they were happy to come and help stitch squares together. There was of course lots of laughing and dancing being done while working! Here are a few photos and a video brought to you by Kacy.

Hard at work! Nhlanhla, Mzwandile, and myself

left to right: Sibusiso, Witness, and Pastor S (that's the name he prefers : )

Proudly posing with one of the completed blankets

My friend Auguste was ready to start dancing!

Everyone needs to take a turn sharing their moves!

More dancing....worth watching

After completing six blankets, the youth decided they want to give them to the family we are building a home for in the community Dwaleni. The oldest member of this family is 18 years. I'm very excited about seeing the youth bless, pray with, & encourage this family in their own language next week! Stay tuned for more pictures and stories!

A few months ago our friend Marisa Groff also put this video together. It shows our previous sewing party and trip to see the Kunene family in Swaziland.

Connecting Communities for the Orphaned & Vulnerable

2011-10-01T06:45:00.005-07:00

We just received more blanket squares (through knit-a-square) from our friends "the Knit Wits" at Rolling Hills Community Church in Lago Vista, Texas!

This past week I asked Koekie, who works at our base, if she would like to help stitch the squares together to complete blankets. Koekie then taught Rose and they completed two blankets together.

Rose (on the left) and Koekie

During a tea time with the volunteers in Dwaleni, Kacy and I showed them the blanket Koekie started and asked if they wanted to help complete more blankets. The ladies were happy to help and started working right away!

Gogo Belina and I (photos by Kacy Chaffin)

From Texas to South Africa, communities of people have partnered together to provide warmth for the orphaned and vulnerable. Stay tuned for more stories and photos to come! Please also check out the new and improved Ten Thousand Homes website!!

http://tenthousandhomes.org/

Officially A Marathon Runner!

2011-09-18T04:47:00.005-07:00

I'm happy to report I finished my first full marathon (42 km / 26.2 miles) yesterday! It was quite an adventure. I boarded a bus with the other marathon runners at 5 am. After crossing the hectic border, we started the race in Zimbabwe. The kilometers weren't marked throughout the race so at each water station I asked how far left to go and some answers were more accurate than others. The toughest part of the race was the last 10 km. I could feel every muscle in my legs! My friends caught up with me during the last 5 km of the race and took these photos.

my South African cheering section: Mzwandile and Lennon

posing with my medal (photo taken several hours after the race)...

It felt good to cross the finish line. One experienced marathon runner told me I picked a tough first marathon. The course was challenging and seemed like mostly hills! I finished in about 4 hours 52 minutes. Would I do it again?? Yes, BUT I'd choose a race with less hills! It feels good to have accomplished my goal and I'm so thankful for all the support / encouragement I've received! Thank you!

2 Countries Marathon Here We Come!

2011-09-06T05:12:00.014-07:00

After not feeling well, and taking time to rest, I started running again last week. Last Saturday, with the help of my own South African "security team" I attempted to run the last long training run 32.2 km / 20 miles. As you may know, it's not safe to run that far alone where I live, so my friends Lennon and Mzwandile road bikes with me as I ran.

Meet my security team: Mzwandile, Witness, Stanley (forgive his absence of a shirt : ), and Lennon

Since we weren't sure if I could run that far and if the bikes would work, our friend Stanley was on standby at the base. He had my car keys and instructions to fetch us if we needed him. With determination, I told Stanley "do not let me quit and get in the car unless I'm bleeding or crying." Well, I'm thrilled to report Stanley didn't fetch us and I completed the run!!!

Mzandile, Lennon, and myself a few hours after running....

After running, I was exhausted, happy, and thankful. I thought about what Jesus spoke in John 13:34-35:

"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

I'm overwhelmed when I think about the love I was shown by others that day. I felt loved that Lennon and Mzwandile road bikes through a lot of hills for four hours, Stanley waited all morning to see if he'd get a call from us, and Witness was also available to help where needed. Grandmothers and children I go to church with in Mbonisweni cheered me on as I ran past their houses. I felt God's love from a community of people outside my own culture that I continue to learn from.

The official marathon (42.2 km / 26.2 miles) is on Saturday 17 September. The starting line for the race is in Zimbabwe. I'm not thrilled to wake up early to get on a bus from Musina, South Africa to Zimbabwe at 4:45 am that morning, but I can't wait to see how the race goes, and to complete one of my dreams! There is more to come!

Happy Birthday Kacy!

2011-08-30T04:59:00.007-07:00

Today is my friend Kacy's birthday. A couple weeks ago Kacy hosted a birthday party with visiting members of her church in Texas and her Mbonisweni family. Kacy met her Mbonisweni family (and Lifa) last year during her community home stay. Now she's fully integrated in as a member or their family.

Instead of receiving gifts at her party, Kacy gave the family gifts our friend Laura Chaffin recently sent them. The family was thrilled!

Zodwa showing off her gift

Gogo

Prudence

When Kacy handed Samkelo and Bongani their gifts, they immediately started looking at the photo albums Laura put together for them. I truly believe these twins will make a big impact (and already are) in Mbonisweni. They run a car wash every Friday afternoon as a way of earning money. I've also hired them to be my water suppliers during long runs through their community. Kacy has been teaching them about saving money and they recently started a garden (click here to read more about them).

Kacy and her Mbonisweni family

Kacy (wearing the dress Gogo made her) and I with her Texas church family (Patrick, Mary, Alyssa, and Steven)

Thank you Laura for your creative, thoughtful gifts! Kacy I hope you have a great day! You are a great friend, who continues to amaze me and teach me.

New Name, New Look

2011-08-26T12:50:00.009-07:00

Welcome to my changed blog! The photo in my header (by Marisa Groff) was taken during a long walk in Motjane, Swaziland. The boy I'm carrying is Mpumalelo, Petros and Elisabeth Kunene's youngest son. He was too tired to walk any farther on his own.

As I see how Mpumalelo held on to me, I'm reminded of how the Father wants to carry us on the path of life. As I step forward down this dirt road, I see where I currently am in life. Following an unmarked path, God’s plan. Upon first glance, it doesn’t always make sense. At times I’m disappointed and question Him. But by faith, I trust His plan is better than my plan. He is creative and full of surprises along the way.

So I look around, wanting to take advantage of each moment, waiting expectantly for the next surprise, claiming Him as my hope. He is with me In Transit......

Permission to Rest

2011-08-25T03:22:00.003-07:00

I haven't felt great for a few weeks. I have had some kind of lung infection. After two rounds of antibiotics I'm stilling experiencing shortness of breath and lack energy. Today I went to the clinic again. My chest and heart are okay. I was told the shortness of breath is just a result of getting over the infection.

I've been instructed to rest for a week, no running or working. I'm disappointed at the thought of possibly not being able to run the marathon I've been training for on 17 September, but know I can't force it. So for the next week, I'm staying with friends, hoping to get rest, healing, and be refueled again.

Have You Heard About Lee Dodge?

2011-08-19T15:07:00.004-07:00

In the midst of a hectic week here in South Africa, I learned via text message that my father, Lee Dodge, quit his job. He worked at the same business for 38 years. He didn’t always like it and his colleagues didn’t always like him (that is after-all - part of working in the real world). BUT he always provided for his family, he always put our needs before his own personal happiness.

This week he realized the job related stress and unhappiness were no longer worth it. He was done. His last day had come sooner that his anticipated date of retirement. He left. He took a big risk. Two days later, he had another job offer. He starts this coming Monday.

I am and will continue to be proud of my dad. I truly believe there are times when God allows us to be miserable / unhappy SO THAT we will take the leap of faith needed to turn toward the next door he wants to open. Praying my father will experience more joy in the coming year than he has in the past five years. He’s worth it.

Singing With Tercia

2011-08-10T13:42:00.009-07:00

Recently I started singing with my friend Tercia, one of the youth we work with in Mbonisweni. Tercia is incredibly talented! Every week we rotate who will teach a new song. Now Lifa and I even walk around our property together, singing songs Tercia taught me in their language.

Often when it comes to being in front of large groups of people, I'd rather sit in the back and keep quiet. So I'm growing in confidence in that area this year. Hope you enjoy this video (made by Laura Chaffin) of a song we sang in church last month!

Marathon Training, A Community Effort

2011-08-02T05:21:00.010-07:00

In order to safely train for a marathon, I have to rely on the community of people around me. This past Saturday, my friend Nhlanhla and I ran about 25.7 km (16 miles). My friend Kacy (and Lifa) helped us with water stations as we ran through the community Mbonisweni twice. Nhlanhla's family and two European photographers from the visiting YWAM PhotogeniX outreach team were present as well. Lindsey also ran the last 10 km with us.

Lifa and his best friend Tshepiso
(Photo by Kacy Chaffin)

Nhlanhla at the first water station (photo by Kat Stahl)

Running through Mbonisweni (photo by Kat Stahl)

Kacy and the kids waiting... (photo by Kat Stahl)

The last stretch... (photo by Kat Stahl)

We finished the run in 2 hours and 32 minutes. Another friend, Mbuso, was going to ride a bike with us, but unfortunately the bike's breaks stopped working soon after we started running. It was a long day filled with preparing snacks for the kids, running, and cooking a post run lunch for Nhlanhla's family. It takes a lot more time and money to involve a community, but it's more fun than doing it alone, and definitely worth it! I'm thankful for the community around me.

A Birthday & Half Marathon Weekend

2011-07-10T11:50:00.007-07:00

This past weekend I turned another year older and ran a half marathon with my friend Stanley. Stanley didn't train for the run. His natural talent carried him through the race. He did great and we had a blast.

We started with some pre-run dancing to keep warm

Our friend Laura Chaffin made us signs.

Posing with Laura and our friend Lennon

Ready to start! (I didn't see Stan again until about 18km later)

After crossing the finish line, they handed us
coke and avocados

Showing off our medals!

It was a great run, I finished right at 2 hours, a personal best for me! And so I finish week six of the full marathon training.....

He's Healthy

2011-07-01T13:02:00.005-07:00

This picture of Carson was taken a couple of days ago. I can't think of a more fitting outfit!

Photo by Tara Ghiatis

I arrived back in South Africa yesterday afternoon. Today I attended two staff meetings, caught up with friends, and attempted to put my house back together (I actually live in one room - but I call it my house).

The transition back......is never easy.....but it was worth it. I'm so thankful I was able to go to Las Vegas to be with my family. I'm thankful for all God did in healing Carson.

When you go through something like this, insecurities and problems magnify. Relationships are tested. You can question God, and either grow closer or farther away from Him. You walk away realizing things you took for granted, areas in your life that need to change, and you hopefully have a new perspective that will enrich your life.

Father's Day

2011-06-19T14:00:00.001-07:00

As I honor and appreciate my father today, I wanted to share a few pictures we took when the family was together a couple of weeks ago.

Chris, Creighton, and Papa Lee (photo by Tara Ghiatis)

Papa Lee with Tara, Madison, & Carson

Now we added Robin to the picture

Hope you had a great day Dad! We love you.

Marathon Training

2011-06-18T13:53:00.005-07:00

Earlier in the year, I blogged about my goal to complete a marathon this year. I just completed week 3 of a 16 week training program. After running seven miles yesterday, I feel good. I know I have a long way to go....but for now I'm celebrating finishing week 3 and looking forward to the next three months of training.

I've really enjoyed getting up early and running outside alone with my ipod, while in Las Vegas. Due to crime, I can't do this in South Africa. So.....I'm going to have to get creative about how to run the long runs and rely on my friend Stanley (and maybe Michael, Lindsey, and Zach?) to run with me when they are willing. The date of the marathon is 17 September 2011. The run is between Zimbabwe and Musina, South Africa, along the Limpopo river. I'm excited to view the beautiful scenery!

Any suggestions for how to stay motivated and confident to achieve a big goal? Would love to hear what has worked for someone else!

Thank You MJ's Memories

2011-06-16T16:47:00.006-07:00

Last week when Carson was still in the Pediatric ICU, he received a package from MJ's Memories. Curious, my sister Tara and I opened the package. We discovered another mommy, Eva Pitas Pfieffer, had also spent time in the ICU, and requested this care package be sent to us.

Tara and I both teared up as we read the letter inside. The contents of the package were donated in memory of Michael Joseph Skaggs, called MJ. MJ was born on July 25, 2009 with a congenital diaphragmatic hernia (CDH). He fought for his life for 35 amazing days before passing away in his mother's arms. After he passed away his family looked for a way to keep his memory alive and found Project Sweet Peas. Click here to read more about MJ's story and their project. What an amazing group of people!

The goal of MJ's Memories is to provide care packages that give a touch of comfort to someone in need and let them know they are not alone. The letter gave a reason for every item in the care package. Toiletries, baby booties, a blanket, stuffed animal, photo album, chap stick, and many other items were included. It's amazing to see how this family is keeping MJ's precious memories alive by blessing families they will never meet personally!

Carson's neighbor in the hospital, Vinny, has lived in between the NICU and PICU his entire life. His mom, who has three or four other children, provides the primary source of income for Vinny's family. Therefore, she visits Vinny when she is able. Vinny's mom told Tara it bothered her that Vinny is listed as "Baby Boy" instead of just "Vinny." On Carson's day of discharge, Tara shared some of the care package contents with Vinny. Now Vinny has a name plate, he's known.

(Photo by Tara Ghiatis)

Thank you MJ's Memories and Eva Pitas Pfieffer for the package you sent Carson!

Carson's Homecoming

2011-06-15T22:48:00.007-07:00

Carson came home from the hospital last Friday! He's doing well, with the help of lots of love, prayers, and modern medicine. Now his parents, sister Madison, and brother Creighton are all adjusting the their new "normal." Here's a few pictures from the past week....

Carson & Grandma Bev:
"you wouldn't believe what I've been through Gram..."

Getting love from his other Grandma Lisa, who we all call "Nana"
(Photo by Chris Ghiatis)

Creighton met Carson at the door when they arrived home

I have a lot to tell you Carson......

Creighton wanting to be with who ever is holding Carson : )

A happy Gram and a healthier boy

A great looking family! (photo by Tara Ghiatis)

Thanks everyone for your positive thoughts and prayers,
I'm getting stronger everyday, Love Carson......

(Photo by Tara Ghiatis)

Ten Thousand Homes Video

2011-06-08T20:12:00.005-07:00

Last month we hosted a YWAM PhotogeniX outreach team. We had a great time getting to know them. This team of photographers and videographers blessed us with this video to promote who we are and what we are doing. Hope you enjoy it!

One Day At A Time.....

2011-06-07T08:53:00.011-07:00

I believe Carson is our miracle baby. It is still a tough road ahead but we are so thankful for his life. There have been times over the past week where the stress has felt too much to handle, especially for Tara and Chris. Often times there are no more words to say, only tears. There are a lot of questions that remain unanswered, like why and what will happen in the future. The support they've received from people all over the world has been amazing. I know in my heart big plans are in store for Carson.

On Saturday night, I was at the hospital with Tara and Chris and they were able to hold Carson for the first time since he went unresponsive a week ago. There wasn't a dry eye in the room. He was even able to breast feed again. Photos by Chris Ghiatis.

Carson and mom reunited
Daddy and Carson
Nice to meet you....I'm your Aunt Keri
Back in bed....

Yesterday, Carson had a tougher day. Tara tried to feed him but he wouldn't stay awake long enough to eat much. The doctor says this isn't abnormal because he's been on a lot of medication and his heart is operating just like an adults would after having a heart attack. His road to recovery will take time......and we literally have to think in terms of baby steps.

This morning I was reading 40 Days with Jesus by Sarah Young. On Day 20, Young writes "Trust Me by relinquishing control into My hands. Let go, and recognize that I am God. This is My world: I made it and I control it."

"When you bring Me prayer requests, lay out your concerns before Me. Speak to Me candidly; pour out your heart. Then thank Me for the answers that I have set into motion long before you can discern results. When your requests come to mind again, continue to thank Me for the answers that are on the way. If you keep on stating your concerns to Me, you will live in a state of tension. When you thank Me for how I am answering your prayers, your mind-set becomes much more positive. Thankful prayers keep your focus on My Presence and My promises."

Colossians 4:2: Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving

My prayer: Lord we thank you for Carson's life and for all the good that will come out of this situation. May you use this situation to help many other people out there. We place his future in your mighty hands. Thank you that we don't have to rely on our own strength. Please continue to surround Tara and Chris with people who love, support them, and who speak truth & encouragement into their lives. Right now there are more questions than answers.....show each one of us how to rely on you one day at a time.....

Seeing Miracles

2011-06-04T16:34:00.014-07:00

I'm in Las Vegas, spending the afternoon with Tara and Carson at the Pediatric ICU. When I first saw Carson two days ago, I was surprised by how little he really is. The pictures made him appear bigger than his 10 lb self. They've removed a lot of fluid from his little body. This is a picture of him after the open heart surgery. (Photos provided by Chris Ghiatis)

The first time he opened both eyes. He's listening to his mom's voice.Both of my sisters, Robin and Tara praying for him.

With the help of prayers from around the world, Carson is making progress. Within the last 24 hours they took him off the ventilator and took out one of his chest tubes.

After a long week of fighting, Carson is now resting.

It's been a week of miracles and we are very thankful for all of your prayers. Tara just gave him 1 oz of breast milk through a bottle and we are waiting to see how he tolerates it. They are giving him lasix for the fluid on his lungs. I'm not the best at providing detailed medical information, but at this point we are extremely pleased and thankful for his progress.

Carson Update.....

2011-06-01T00:33:00.007-07:00

Yesterday Carson had open heart surgery. My brother-in-law said he coded again during the surgery, but they brought him back. He had a heart defect. The doctor said his heart had been operating as if he was running a marathon everyday and his heart finally gave up. Now his heart is beating on it's own. The next 48 hours are critical and the doctors say he will get sicker before he gets better.

Yesterday I hurt for him and the family. I wanted someone, anyone, to tell me to get on a plane to be with them. Finally, my oldest sister Robin told me "if you want to come then get to coming." So at 5 pm South African time, I found a flight. Now fourteen hours later, I'm at the airport ready to board the first of four flights to Las Vegas. I'll arrive in Vegas tomorrow evening. My flight is one-way. I'm trusting God to provide the funds for a ticket when it's time for me to return to South Africa.

Today Carson is six weeks old. Today is also my both of my sisters' birthdays. They were born on the same day three years apart. Thank you for your prayers. I'd appreciate your prayers for my traveling. Please continue to pray for Carson, our little fighter.

Please Pray for Carson

2011-05-30T13:35:00.005-07:00

Tonight I learned through email and text messages that my nephew Carson is in serious condition. He's not quite 6 weeks old, and became unresponsive after having a seizure. After coding in an ambulance, he's now in an ICU, in a hospital in Las Vegas, Nevada. My parents and my oldest sister are heading to airports right now to catch flights to Vegas.

I've just learned he hasn't opened his eyes but he did cry when they put in a catheter in and is starting to make a sucking motion, which is a good sign. Right now the Cardiologist is doing and echo cardiogram. My sister just sent me this picture of him.....

Right now it's hard to be a world away. Please pray with us for this little boy. Please pray for a full recovery. Please pray there won't be any brain damage and that he will open his eyes. Please pray for a testimony of God's healing and goodness. Please pray for strength for his parents Chris and Tara. Thank you, your prayers are greatly appreciated.

Ten Thousand Homes Coffee

2011-05-02T09:28:00.006-07:00

Ten Thousand Homes now has its own official blend of coffee through 35 NORTH COFFEE CO! Coffee orders can be placed by clicking here. A portion of proceeds from each bag of coffee sold will be donated to Ten Thousand Homes!

Thank you 35 NORTH COFFEE CO. for providing for providing this creative way for people to support our work in South Africa!

Cleaning Day

2011-05-01T14:44:00.005-07:00

My friends' girls, Arielle and Zoe, like to stop by my room when I'm home. They may come to see what I'm doing, tell me something, offer to help me, or if I'm cooking Arielle may tell me she's also hungry. In the midst of an exciting day cleaning this week, I was able to spend time with Zoe. Our conversation went something like this.....

Zoe: "Teri can I come in?" (she's sitting at the entry to my room)

Me: "Not yet Zoe, wait just a minute until I'm finished sweeping the dirt off my floor." This was met with a disappointed look.....

Me after the floor was swept: "Okay Zoe you can come in."
Zoe: "okay, I want lipstick (also known as chapstick), please."

Those Price girls make me smile.....

A Hope Beyond How I “Feel”

2011-04-24T11:57:00.009-07:00

For about a week now I’ve struggled with feelings of discouragement. It seems like a lot of things are happening at once, and I'm not that thrilled about some of the life situations I'm facing. There have been a lot of opportunities over the past week to lose my sense of hope.

I’ve been running again and plan to do a marathon in September. Our life here in South Africa often gets blurry as to when the work day begins and ends because we work and live in the same place. Running is a completely non-work related activity and I know I need more “non-work related activities” in my life! The past couple of days I ran on the road entering our property with Austin, one of our residential dogs. Austin has a short attention span so he doesn’t always stay with me the entire run.

This afternoon I wasn’t really into my run and I cut it short. An hour later I received word that two girls had just been mugged on the same road I run on. They were not hurt, thank goodness, and what was stolen from them can be replaced. We all feel horrible this happened to them. I feel defeated that it isn't safe to run or walk on the road leading into our property.

Tonight I went to a friends house for dinner. I learned about a robbery and shooting that happened to a family they know living up road from them. I asked myself “is it worth it to live here?”

As I reflect on the meaning of Easter.....I’m thankful there is a hope beyond what I can see in front of me. I’m thankful for the ways in which God protects us that we don’t see. I’m thankful I don’t have to place my hope in how I “feel.” God is so much bigger than my narrow perspective. Praying for healing for the two girls, the slim chance the thief may be caught, safety, and creative running solutions.

Here is the link (click here) to the blog I wrote about Easter last year. Crime does go up at Easter time and it seems like I struggled with similar feelings last year. Remembering to place my hope in Jesus, not in my emotions.

Back In South Africa and A New Nephew

2011-04-23T11:14:00.012-07:00

There are a lot of highlights to share from the past six weeks of traveling. I traveled to New York, North & South Carolina, Las Vegas, Tennessee, Kentucky, Texas, and Nebraska. I'm thankful for the the opportunity to meet with so many people interested and invested in Ten Thousand Homes. I'm also thankful for the times I had with friends and family.

When I returned to South Africa this past Wednesday, I found out my sister Tara had her baby!! Meet my new nephew, Carson Jay Ghiatis.

(Photo by Madison Arledge)

Baby Carson with his older brother Creighton & dad Chris

(Photo by Tara Ghiatis)

I can't wait to meet baby Carson......one day.

A Weekend with the Ghiatis Family

2011-03-25T21:05:00.007-07:00

Here a few photos I took last weekend when I visited my sister Tara, and her family in Las Vegas.

Photo Booth with Madison

Madison's 14th birthday party (seriously where have 14 yrs gone??)

Creighton's about to get Madison's cake (his dad Chris is holding him)

Creighton making a fashion statement? Love that kid...

My sister's friend Tania colored my hair. I think she did a nice job.

It was a quick but good visit. I'm always a little sad to leave family, knowing my niece and nephews will grow and change a lot before I see them again. The next time I visit Las Vegas, I'll have a new nephew (he's scheduled to enter the world at the end of April). Can't wait to meet him.

Strengths Finder 2.0

2011-03-24T20:37:00.008-07:00

I just finished the book Strengths Finder 2.0 by Tom Rath. It was a quick read that includes a code for an online assessment of your strengths. This assessment takes about 30 minutes to complete and is designed to uncover certain key talents - patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior. These patterns are categorized into 34 themes that indicate a persons unique talents / strengths. This assessment identifies your top five strengths.

In our western culture, we are often led to believe we can "become anything you want to be if you just work hard enough." The author of this book instead says "you cannot be anything you want to be - but you can be a lot more of who you already are." If we are working more out of our strengths, instead of focusing too much on our weaknesses, chances are we will be a lot happier and successful

My Top 5 Strengths:

Developer: See potential in others. Believe each individual is a work in progress. Look for signs of growth in others.

Empathy: (this one surprised me) Can sense emotions of those around. Can feel what others are feeling. See the world through their eyes, even if you don't agree with their perspective. Ability to understand. Anticipate need.

Adaptability: Live in the moment. Expect unforeseen detours. Flexible. Needs to avoid tasks that are too structured or don't offer enough variety.

Belief: Have enduring core values. These core values give your life meaning and satisfaction. Believes success is more than money and prestige. Dependable. Must do work that is meaningful.

Positivity: (this one surprised me) Generous with praise. Light hearted. Celebrate achievement. Enthusiastic.

The results of this assessment were simple, yet beneficial. The developer and adaptability strengths help me see why predictability drives me nuts. I'm a starter not a maintainer. I'm passionate about seeing people I know live the fullest / best life God has for them. Belief explains why I do the work I'm doing.

Week of 12-18 March

2011-03-18T12:33:00.011-07:00

Saturday 12 March. Lindsey's friend Mary Clare helped us host a home party at her apartment in New York. We had a good turn out and enjoyed sharing about Ten Thousand Homes. Excited to see the potential friendships / partnerships God may bring from this event.

Had dinner with Aleen and David Henry.....good time with friends.

Sunday 13 March. Explored the city with my friend Aleen. Had a blast at the Knicks game!

Monday 14 March. Flew from New York City to Charlotte, NC with Lindsey. Our flight to New Bern, NC (close to Lindsey's family) was canceled so we stayed the night in Charlotte. Lindsey and I used this time to work out details for our stateside tour and details for our next Compassion DTS (Discipleship Training School).

Tuesday 15 March. Made it to New Bern, NC. Stayed the night with Lindsey's parents. I had met Lindsey's mom a couple of times in South Africa, so it was nice to see her again.

Wednesday 16 March. Made the six hour car ride to Michael's parents home in South Carolina. Very nice people.

Thursday 17 March. Michael, Lindsey, and I drove to Hickory, NC. We had a great meeting with a CEO of a company. He is going to sponsor the next home we build for an orphan in one of the communities where we work. So excited for this sponsorship!

After the meeting, the Kaufmans dropped me off at the airport. I had a late night flight to Las Vegas.

Friday 18 March. I'm officially tired! Glad to be in Vegas for the weekend spending time with family!

My nephew Creighton

Madison & Creighton

Cucumber Pedicures! Perfect end to the week...

Carmelo Anthony & the New York Knicks

2011-03-14T02:49:00.009-07:00

When I was in Cape Town a couple weeks ago, my friend Megan (who lives in Austin, TX) sent a text message letting me know my favorite NBA player was traded to the New York Knicks. As a Denver Nugget fan who had been following the so called "Melo drama," it was obvious this trade was inevitable. After reading Megan's text, my friend Aleen who was with me at the time, had to endure a short monologue of why I could never become a Knicks fan.

To my surprise, almost three weeks later, I had the opportunity to attend a Knicks game last night at Madison Square Garden. So much for not becoming a Knicks fan?? Even though the Knicks lost, Aleen and I had a great time!

(photo below by Aleen)

After only being back in the States a few days, it was a surreal yet fantastic experience. I'm so thankful we were able to attend! Thank you Aleen!!!

Ten Thousand Homes Stateside Tour

2011-03-09T06:59:00.004-08:00

A couple of months ago, our leadership team felt we needed two or three people to go to the States for a Ten Thousand Homes fund-raising tour. We decided to pray and fast individually and then meet together as a team to hear who felt called to go.

On the morning of our leadership meeting, I woke up at 3:30 am and couldn't get back to sleep. The idea came to me that I was suppose to go to the States with our point leaders, Michael and Lindsey Kaufman. I'd love to tell you that I responded with "yes Lord - here am I, send me." However, I instead tried to pray my way out of it. I gave God several reasons why I'm not "qualified" to speak to churches and individuals of behalf of Ten Thousand Homes. As I wrestled with God (and drank coffee till I was extra nervous), I finally prayed "okay God if this is really your idea then please confirm it with other members on our team."

During our leadership meeting later that day, the first two or three people mentioned my name as a person who should go. Then Lindsey asked "Keri how do you feel about others saying you should consider going?" Despite my anxiety, it was obvious I was called to go on this trip with the Kaufmans.

Last week, I told Pastor Sthembiso and Thuli about the trip. They really encouraged me and I started to get excited about this opportunity. It was also important to me to ask the youth in Mbonisweni and the volunteers in Dwaleni to pray for us before we left.

Today I board a plane to New York City where I'll spend the weekend. On Monday I'll fly with Lindsey Kaufman to North Carolina. Over the next month we will be touring in North and South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, and possibly Florida and the west coast. Your prayers are appreciated as we build new relationships and visit established friendships. If you would like more information about the trip please email me at keridodge@tenthousandhomes.org. More to stories to come Stateside!!

Knit-a-Square: From Start to Finish......

2011-03-08T08:50:00.007-08:00

December 2010, my friend Mmapula (Megan) and I met with a group of knitters (called the knit wits) at the Rolling Hills Community Church in Lago Vista, Texas. They had just prayed over a parcel they were sending to knit-a-square in South Africa.

February 2011, traveled to Johannesburg and picked up two parcels from the knit wits.

An outreach team from YWAM Orlando sewed the knitted squares together to make ten individual blankets. The knit wits from Texas attached a prayer for each blanket "may the one who receives these squares be cradled in hope, kept in joy, graced with peace, and wrapped in love."

Volunteers in the community Dwaleni, identified ten single (lost one parent) or double (lost both parents) orphans to receive these blankets. Togo, one of the volunteers we work with, took us to the primary school where we distributed the blankets. Before presenting the blankets we explained that each blanket symbolized God's love for them and they were prayed for and loved by all the women who made the blankets. Here are some of the beautiful faces in Dwaleni....

Figile, age 13

Matente, age 10

Betty, age 5

Betty is just too cute!

Themba, age 13

Mcedisi, age 9

Wiseman, age 15

Banele, age 7

Nandi, age 10

Phin, age 6

Togo and the nine children from the school

Last but not least, Thembelinhle age 12

Despite the heat, a few of these children wore the blankets around their shoulders on the walk to the feeding program later that day. With winter coming in a couple of months, they will need these blankets! Thank you to the knit wits of Rolling Hills Community Church, the YWAM Orlando outreach team, and knit-a-square! It was a special day and it's a blessing to partner with you!!

Eating & Celebrating Together

2011-03-07T10:45:00.000-08:00

On the first and third Tuesdays of each month, we eat dinner together as a staff. Lately it's been a "bring and braai" - which means you bring your own meat and we braai (BBQ) together. Last week we celebrated Lennon's 22nd Birthday! We surprised him by inviting some of his family from Mbonisweni and Kacy made a few delicious cakes. There was plenty of dancing and laughter to go around!

In the back: Mzwandile, Lennon, and Lwazi (Lennon's best friend)
In the front: Lennon's two nieces and one nephew (Lennon is the youngest of 12 kids, thus he is an uncle to many : )

Lennon lost both of his parents when he was a teenager. They passed away within a couple years of one another. When I look at a Lennon, I don't see an orphan. I see a young man, chasing after what God has for him. I see a leader, someone who can relate to the children we serve, someone who is (and will continue) making a huge impact on the orphan crisis. I'm blessed to know him, and I'm thankful we get to celebrate his life!

A Surprise in Dwaleni

2011-03-06T11:00:00.001-08:00

In a previous blog I wrote about Aleen purchasing four tables and ten chairs for the volunteers in the community Dwaleni. These volunteers cook for 150-200 children every Thursday afternoon. This past week we surprised the ladies with their new tables and chairs. My friend Carly Bee did a great job producing the video below.

Tables in Dwaleni from Keri Dodge on Vimeo.

Thank you Aleen and her friends in New York City who helped make this happen! Thank you Carly Bee for documenting this special day!

Cape Town Part 4

2011-03-05T08:15:00.000-08:00

We spent our last full day at Cape Agulhas, the southernmost point of Africa. Here are a few pictures Susan took....

Where the oceans meet...

After a beautiful drive we spent the evening at Camps Bay. Aleen, Stanley, and I walked into the wind on the beach. Susan stayed behind and took these photos of us getting beat up by sand. It was painful....yet fun. Poor Stanley tired hard to protect his shaved head as Aleen and I ended up with a ton of sand in our hair!

The next day I said goodbye to Aleen in Johannesburg. She flew back to New York City and I drove 3 1/2 hours back to home in White River. I had an amazing time. I'm so thankful for Aleen's visit, support, and friendship!

Cape Town Part 3

2011-03-04T12:03:00.009-08:00

Here are a few pictures from the wedding. It was a beautiful ceremony. David and Grace put a lot of thought into incorporating both the Korean and Nigerian cultures. David Song is someone I have a lot of respect for and it was great to be a part of their celebration.

Posing with the Groom (photo by Aleen)

Posing with Stanley and Aleen

Our crew from White River:
Starting from the Left: me, Zach & Anneke Price, Grace and David,
Stanley, the Kaufman family, & Rich & Lynn Hodge

Susan Chon and the bride and groom. Susan grew up with David.
I met her when she visited White River in 2008. It was great to spend
time with her again!

My plate at the reception

Throughout the day I thought of friends who were missed - Brittany and the Price family. At the reception they showed a slide show of Facebook messages and videos from people who couldn't make it. I was so happy to see a video from the Price family and a message from Brittany.

A "Shout out" to Brittany (forgive the low picture quality)

The night ended with lots of dancing. So fun.....

Cape Town Part 2

2011-03-03T11:23:00.003-08:00

Here are some photos Aleen took when we went to Table Mountain.

The Cableway we took up and down

Stanley enjoying the view

Overlooking the city

So beautiful! Such a great day.....

Cape Town Part 1

2011-03-02T12:17:00.008-08:00

Last week I was in Cape Town for my friend David Song's wedding. I traveled with my friends Aleen and Stanley. We missed our original flight because we managed to get a bit lost in Johannesburg. Then when we arrived to Cape Town it took us about an hour and half to find the restaurant where we were meeting Song and some other friends. Sometimes you just have to laugh!

We had an amazing time! Here are some photos from our first day of exploring.....

Cape of Good Hope

Cape Point

Simons Town

Hanging out with African Penguins....

(Photo by Aleen)

Week of 13 February

2011-02-19T23:24:00.011-08:00

Here's a look at the past week........

Sunday. The Youth Service in Mbonisweni fantastic. It was an open discussion about relationships, romantic love, and sex. It was the first time I've ever been a part of such an honest / open discussion amongst Africans. I left feeling encouraged and proud of the youth for discussing things that aren't always culturally okay to discuss openly.

Monday. Our first outreach team landed. We are hosting a team of 24 people (4 guys and 20 ladies) from YWAM Orlando. They will be with us for three weeks. My friend Aleen also arrived from New York City. She is staying in South Africa with me for two weeks!

Tuesday. I have officially worked myself out of a job. I have been a part of the "procurement team" for over a year. This team basically purchases all food, cleaning supplies, etc needed for our property and for the feeding programs. Now I've turned the purchasing over to Lennon and the volunteers from each community. Empowering Africans is very close to my heart, so I love seeing Lennon and the volunteers take over purchasing and managing the finances for the feeding programs. However, I'm going to miss spending time with them every Tuesday!

Wednesday. It was Ladies Day! Every few weeks a few of us spend time with our friend Thuli (Pastor Sthembiso's wife). For this Ladies Day, six of us (plus Thuli's son Blessing) went out to lunch. We had great talks with Thuli.

Me holding Blessing, Aleen, Thuli, Kacy, and Jaclyn

Photo by Carly Bee, this is why she isn't pictured

Thuli is really encouraged that the Youth Services have helped female youth to open up to her and ask frank her questions about relationships and sex. Young women getting pregnant is a common occurrence. I'm excited that God is using Thuli to make a difference and be a catalyst for change amongst the youth!

Thursday. The Orlando team has been sewing knitted squares together to make blankets for the kids in Dwaleni.

Friday. Aleen helped us purchase tables for the ladies in Dwaleni! These ladies have been cutting vegetables in their laps.....so excited they will now have four new tables and ten chairs to make their job of cooking for 150+ kids a little easier!

Aleen went with me to the weekly bible study in Mbonisweni. Lorraine, one of the youth, did a great job leading the discussion. I desire to spend more time with Lorraine and Lucrisha the only two female youth leaders (they are both in Secondary School).....because they can make a big impact on female youth in their community.

Thuli usually holds Blessing on her back with a towel. Aleen gave her a baby wrap from South Korea.

Saturday. Went to the Kruger National Park with Aleen, Stanley, and Lennon. We saw four (leopard, rhino, elephants, and buffalo) of the big five. I have yet to see a lion in the park.

Stanley, Aleen, & Lennon overlooking Hippos in a pond

Me & the guys

Thanks for reading. Stay tuned next week for more stories/photos from Cape Town where a few of us are traveling for our friend Dave Song's wedding!

Week of 6 February

2011-02-11T13:01:00.012-08:00

Here is a look at this past week....

Sunday. We had the first Youth Service at the church in Mbonisweni. The topic this month is love. Stanley led the discussion about God's love verses human love. He did a great job. It was nice to hear input from youth members. "Youth" is loosely defined as anyone from the age of 16 upwards. I am in the "upwards" category, and I'm classified as a youth because I'm not a mother.

Wednesday. I drove to Johannesburg with Lynn Hodge to get Kacy and Carly Bee from the airport. Kacy is on staff and has been in the States for two months. Carly Bee is with us for a month helping with the website, videos, and other graphic design type stuff. Of course when I saw them, they were both dancing with excitement! Then they sandwiched me with hugs (I was in between them and yes people were staring). They love making me laugh awkwardly! It's good to have them back!

While in Joburg, we meet up with ladies from Knit-A-Square who gave us two large parcels from Rolling Hills Community Church in Lago Vista, Texas. Click here to read a previous blog I wrote about this group of knitters. We are so excited to have their squares for the kids we serve!! Next week we have an outreach team coming from YWAM Orlando and we will teach them how to stitch the knitted squares together to make blankets.

Jacelyn (one of our newest staff members) and myself

We plan to give these blankets to children living in Dwaleni. So excited for this partnership and to give our new friends in Texas more details / photos about the kids who will receive their blankets!

Friday. Had a great conversation with my friend Carla. Sometimes I struggle with perspective. I've been frustrated with myself lately because I'm complaining about things that are or aren't happening in my life - instead of praying and seeking God about it. I plan to get away for a few hours this weekend to pray about these things, finally. I know I need to focus on what I CAN do with what I have. For example, I need to change my words....remember that God is not a God of hopelessness!

I also decided to start small and focus on what I CAN do about my living situation. The tiles in my shower have slowly been falling down. They are (or were) surrounded by dirt and mold. Tonight I pulled them off, scrapped off moldy paint, and scrubbed the walls. Maybe down the road I can retile. It's a start.....

The before picture

After picture: Not perfect, but much better

After the tiles were removed I now have two shower heads?
Oops......perhaps that's not so normal : )

Cooking for the Orphaned and Vulnerable

2011-02-10T05:45:00.004-08:00

On Wednesday mornings, I usually spend time with the volunteers at the church Mbonisweni. At 10:00, they start getting ready for the afternoon feeding program. We sweep the church. We cut vegetables, without cutting boards or potato peelers. We chat and laugh.

I don't go because of my ability to chop onions, potatoes, or carrots. I don't go because I think they need me there. I go to build relationships. I go to serve the volunteers.

Meet Mzwandile, the manager of the feeding program.
He is cooking "pap" a staple food made out of mealie meal.
The kids eat it with their hands.

Last week we prepared meat balls!

My African friend Lennon, once told me "you guys (westerners) like to ask a lot of questions. For instance," he said "you don't want to just know how I am doing, you want to know how I am doing doing doing." I laughed and told him he was right. We want to know things like how people are doing in life, what is going well, what challenges they are facing, and details about their family life. Culturally speaking, those are not things you can just sit down and ask a South African the first couple of times you meet them. It's important to spend time together and gradually ask questions as you build trust with one another.

The amazing view outside the church

So for now, we chop vegetables together, we attend church together, we make small talk, we sometimes sit in silence together, and then I am truly honored when someone trusts me enough to share something about their life. Building relationships takes time...........

3 Years Ago, A Look Back

2011-02-09T12:53:00.004-08:00

February 2008. Seven months into my Peace Corps service. I was living in a village with an African host family, working for a local organization that didn’t offer much work to do. Peace Corps suggested I find a new site. I was lost. Many of my friends had decided to end their Peace Corps service and head back to the States. I seriously considered going home - returning to my former life. As I prayed about it, YWAM came to mind. Hmmm......I did a DTS (Discipleship Training School) at a YWAM base in 2004, but I didn’t think missions was for me. I emailed several YWAM bases anyways asking if they would like a Peace Corps Volunteer to work with them.

I received a reply from an American couple, originally from Texas. On February 9, 2008, I traveled 6 hours on 3 taxis to visit them. At one point on the taxi I thought “I can’t believe I’m doing this.” Jeremy and Jen Price picked me up at the taxi rank. On the drive to their house, they told me about Ten Thousand Homes.

On arrival I met the Kaufmans and the Hodges. We ate nice food. They had running water. They were preparing for their first DTS....and pioneering their dream "to provide HOPE and HOME to orphans and vulnerable children.”

I spent the weekend with them. Then Jeremy casually asked what I thought about joining them. Um.....yeah....where do I sign up? I traveled back to my village and a week later Peace Corps phoned to say they approved my sight change. On February 21, 2008 I hopped into a Peace Corps Land Rover and left my life as Manoko Mashitisho (my African name) from a small village in Limpopo behind. It was bittersweet to leave my African family

Me and my host brother Tankiso, I'll always love that kid...

Now three years later, I’m still with Ten Thousand Homes. I’ve said more good byes than I care to remember. I’ve grown. I’ve learned. I’ve watched people I work with grow and change. I’ve gained life long friends.

I never thought I’d be here this long. I never thought I’d be a leader within Ten Thousand Homes. Our previous point leaders, Jeremy and Jen Price are on sabbatical. If they were here I’d tell them “thank you. Thank you for taking a risk on a Peace Corps Volunteer. Thank you for inviting me to be a part of your lives. Thank you for not giving up on me when there were misunderstandings. I’ve really missed you guys.”

A Snake, A Frog, & A Super Bowl Party

2011-02-07T02:19:00.004-08:00

In honor of the Super Bowl, we had a braai (term for a South African BBQ) at midnight. Before the evening festivities started, Michael and Stanley killed a snake they spotted just outside our TV room. Michael threw at rock at its head while Stanley held it down with a mop handle. The rock decapitated the snake.

Stanley noticed the snake ate something before it died. He then cut the snake open to see what was inside. We watched him perform this "surgery" with one of our kitchen knives. I'm sure we sounded like a bunch of young girls shooting "gross" as we watched Stanley pull the unlucky frog out of the snakes belly. I hope Stanley washes that knife well before putting it back in the kitchen!

The Super Bowl pre-party was fun but I couldn't stay awake for the actual game. It started around 1:30 am South African time which was too late for me! Our TV room is referred to as the "Party Room," so I'm glad for one night at least our Party Room lived up to it's name. Today they will bury the snake and the frog. We aren't sure what kind of snake it was.

Week of 30 January

2011-02-04T10:30:00.008-08:00

Here's a look at some highlights from this past week.

Sunday. I was the "MC" of the church service in Mbonisweni (this is the church I attend regularly and it is where we have the feeding program every Wednesday). The "MC" stands up front for a majority of the service and announces the order of the service (when it is time for testimonies, offerings, etc.).

The service is two hours long and between every transition someone in the audience starts a song and then congregation joins in singing. We don't have a band, yet the singing is amazing. This week my friend Zach preached and did a great job. If you've never been to an African church service I'd highly recommend the experience!

Sunday evening our Brazilian coworkers and friends, Raines and Marise, invited Stanley, Lennon, and me to eat Brazilian hot dogs with their family. It was nice food!

Monday. I was asked to be on the youth committee for the church in Mbonisweni. I have to say I was surprised (and flattered) they still consider me a youth! The youth run the feeding program every week. Praying more females will get involved. There are a lot more young men in the church than young women.

We received a new sign at the entrance to our property. Someone donated money for it and it looks great!

Wednesday. Helped Koekie celebrate her birthday! She turned 42 years old. Koekie has worked on our property since 2008.

Lennon, Koekie, and Rose

Thursday. We welcomed our newest staff members Joshua and Jacquelyn from Manitoba Canada. (Sorry I don't have a photo of them yet!)

Friday. Attended the first official Friday afternoon bible study with the youth in Mbonisweni. The common theme God seemed to be teaching each one of us this week was being more thankful for what He has done in our lives.

Week of 23 January

2011-01-28T06:59:00.013-08:00

Monday. I often go to the gym in White River after our work day (the owner gives us a great discount). Lennon usually rides with me to visit his friend Lwazi, who works at a shop in town. Last week, as Lennon entered the car to ride home with me, two guys asked if I was his girlfriend. Oh boy, Lennon and I both laughed! There is a 12 year age difference between us and I can assure you he is the little brother I never knew I had until last year!

Lennon typically rides in the front seat, but now he's been booted. We established "White River Rules" so the context of our friendship will no longer be questioned. Now, Stanley or whoever else is in the car will always ride in the passenger seat, while Lennon rides in the back. Stanley and I have a lot of fun joking with Lennon!

White River Rules

Wednesday. I spent the morning with the volunteers in Mbonisweni, helping them cook and prepare for the afternoon feeding program. Pastor Sthembiso's wife Thuli joined us. We had a lot of fun joking and laughing. I'm thankful to consider Thuli a friend.

Thursday. Thankful to see some our prayers for the community Dwaleni come through. The ladies are more open to suggestions we've made about buying food / managing a budget for the feeding program. Kyle, the Pastor who initially connected us with the volunteers in Dwaleni, is back in South Africa after being on a sabbatical in the States last year. He wants to make more connections with a local church in Dwaleni. One of the older volunteers invited me to her house next week. Excited to spend more time getting to know her and her family.

Friday. Big news!! Stanley passed driving school and officially has his learners permit! This is a big deal! Now Stanley can drive legally by himself or with a licensed driver. We are so proud of him!

Stanley's ready to legally drive!

Real Babies and Flour Babies

2011-01-26T04:20:00.001-08:00

As we drove through the community of Mbonisweni yesterday, we stopped to greet our friend Zodwa. She was walking home from school. Zodwa is 21-years-old and just went back to secondary school to complete grade 12. She had to stop going to school a while back due to her two children (a three-year-old boy and a one-year old girl).

I thought about a different African girl who recently told me she was pregnant. I didn't want to believe her because I wondered why she never told me she had a boyfriend. At some point in the drive, I asked Lennon "do you think if your culture was more open about who is dating who, there would be less girls getting pregnant?" In their culture you don't normally bring someone home to meet your family unless it is almost time to discuss lobola (a bride price, similar to a dowry). Lennon said they were recently discussing in church about how they date like westerners date but they still follow the old cultural ways. Dating relationships aren't often openly discussed.

Last night I was watching an American comedy on TV with Lennon and Stanley. On the show, a man was carrying around a bag of flour pretending it was a baby to determine if he was fit to be a parent. I told the guys I had to carry around a bag of flour when I was in school and pretend it was my baby. The assignment involved taking the sack of flour everywhere with me, we were even suppose to wake up in the night to "pretend" to care for it. Stanley said "no way. That's just crazy." It seemed absurd to both Lennon and Stanley. They laughed a lot!

As I saw the shocked and confused looks on both Lennon and Stanleys' faces, I thought about how ridiculous this same project would seem here. It would be a waste of needed money. Some would want to cook with the flour while others would say they already have a baby or many babies in to care for in their homes. I'm reminded many things that work in the western world as culturally irrelevant in Africa!

Lousy t-shirt book

2011-01-25T12:28:00.013-08:00

By Vince Antonucci

I just finished "I became a Christian and all I got was this lousy t-shirt" by Vince Antonucci. Vince is the Pastor of VERVE in Las Vegas. I'm a bit biased towards this author because I love how VERVE is serving people in Las Vegas (click here to read a previous blog I wrote about VERVE).

This is definitely a book for anyone wanting more passion out of the Christian life. Vince speaks of what it means to be fully alive in living the Jesus life (loving God and loving people). Vince writes "the Jesus life is lived by people who choose to die by serving others rather than themselves."

I was challenged with a question he asks "do you care about other people more than you care about your own comfort?"

Sometimes I wonder what the world would look like if we Christians did a better job of passionately living the Jesus life (loving God and loving people). Would we have a better reputation as people who love instead of people who judge?

I enjoyed this book.....and the ways it challenged me in how I spend time abiding with God and loving people (especially when it's not comfortable). For more information on the book visit http://www.lousytshirtbook.com/.

Heaven is for Real by Todd Burpo

2011-01-23T03:00:00.003-08:00

For the next couple of posts I'll share books I've read recently. Heaven is for Real by Todd Burpo is a true story about a boy who visits heaven while he is having emergency surgery. It may sound a bit 'far-fetched' but don't let scepticism keep you from reading this story. The author is the boy's father. It takes place in western Nebraska - not far from where I grew up. The doctor who operated on the boy is the same surgeon who operated on my mom when she had breast cancer.

This book is a quick read that makes you think. I'm the type of person who rarely thinks about what it will be like in heaven. I'm too busy focusing on today's problems, needs, complaints, and prayers. The biggest reminder I received from reading this book is HOW MUCH GOD LOVES US. It is a love beyond what our minds can comprehend.

According the boy in this story "the first person you will meet in heaven is Jesus." Whether you believe in heaven or not, I'd recommend giving the book a try.....

Week of 16 January

2011-01-21T12:00:00.006-08:00

Wanted to share a few things about this past week. I rarely take photos these days, but I found a few to share.

Sunday. I had a great time hiking with friends at a place called Kaapsehoop. At one point we had to walk through the mud barefoot. I strongly dislike being without shoes so my friend took a photo of my feet in the mud.

Unfortunately when we reached the top it was too foggy to see the view. This toilet is on the edge of the hill.

Thursday. At the feeding program in Dwaleni, Thully, one of the volunteers reminded me I promised to "shoot" (take a photo of) her and her son. He is a sweet baby!

Friday. Today Lennon, Stanley, and I brought a cake to Mbonisweni to celebrate Mzwandile's 21st birthday. Mzwandile is the manager of the feeding program in Mbonisweni and a youth leader in the church. Although he is just one year younger than Lennon, Mzwandile is technically Lennon's nephew. They grew up together so they don't like the titles "uncle" and "nephew."

Mzwandile (on left) & Lennon (on right)

Photo taken at feeding program a couple months ago

Before leaving Mbonisweni I stopped to visit the family of the boy who was sick earlier this week. He did go to the medical clinic yesterday. The family told me they checked his blood for "all diseases" and he is suppose to go back to the clinic Monday for his treatment. I don't know the medical details but he was back to his old self, smiling and running around. The family is relieved he is doing better.

We have a new family on staff living at the base with us. They are originally from Brazil. When I arrived home this afternoon the two boys, Johannes (age 11) and Joshua (age 8), stopped by my room. They asked what I was doing and if they could help me. Sure, I won't turn down help cleaning! We are really enjoying getting to know this family. I hope they find a sense of home and belonging with us.

My new helpers: Johannes & Joshua

Tonight I babysat for the Kaufman kids and then had cake and Brazilian coffee with the new family. Not a bad way to end the week!

Learning to Ask Questions

2011-01-19T13:47:00.008-08:00

Today at the feeding program in Mbonisweni, I saw a boy we know being carried out of the church. I then saw his mother, one of the volunteers, crying. Distressed, she told me her son has epilepsy and needed to get his medication at the clinic. I thought it was a routine medication he needed so I offered to take them to the clinic. She told me the clinic was in another community which is about 10 minutes away by car. Since I didn’t drive to the feeding program, we caught a ride to our base. On the drive she told me “we are going to the witch doctor. She is the only one who can help him.”

When we arrived to our base I took her to my room to talk. I told her I didn’t feel comfortably taking her to see the witch doctor. She immediately responded “why?” Oh boy......as my mind struggled for words I looked out my door and saw Stanley (my African coworker and friend) walking towards us, carrying the Kaufman kids (Isabelle and Ethan) in his arms. I asked Stanley to help explain why we weren’t going to take her to the witch doctor. Stanley explained why and suggested John and I go to family’s house with Pastor Sthembiso and pray over the house and for the sick boy.

As we heard more of the story we learned they went to a clinic when the boy was a baby but they were out of the medication he needed. So the past couple of years, they have instead been taking him to the witch doctor. Pastor discussed the situation with the family, suggesting other options. The boy seemed lethargic but better than he was when he left the extremely hot church earlier in the day. Maybe the heat was affecting him? The three of us (Sthembiso, John, and myself) prayed for God’s healing over the child. I told his mother I’d call her in the morning to see how he is doing and if we need to make a plan to go a clinic. Praying.

I need to ask more questions instead of jumping into situations. It often takes a lot of question asking to get the full story. I’m reminded why it isn’t a always a good idea to just give money to help people. If I would have just given her money, she would have went to the witch doctor, thinking I supported her decision. Please pray for this little three year old boy.

Praying the Psalms

2011-01-16T14:00:00.005-08:00

I’m doing a year long Bible reading plan (http://vervecatalysts.org) from VERVE, a church I'd attend if I lived in Las Vegas. Sometimes when I read the Psalms I’m struck by the psalmists' honesty and cries to God. Can we really be that real and raw to the creator of the universe? Answer: Yes. And let’s face it - he knows us better than we know ourselves. We can’t put on a fake show for Him like we can other people.

Right now I’m not sad, angry, stressed, or worried. Work is slowly starting up again and we aren’t hosting any teams / visitors yet. Life is good, yet there are a couple of situations I need to pray about and I just don’t want to. If I talk about these things then emotions stir that I don’t want to feel or deal with right now. So yesterday I was finally honest with God about where I’m at and asked Him to help.

Prayer isn’t just presenting our requests to God. It is a time to connect with God, offer praises, confess what's on our hearts, and listen. This morning I read Psalms 3, 4, & 5. Sometimes it’s good to be reminded God answers our cries (Psalm 3.4) and hears our call (Psalm 4.3), claim Him as our relief (Psalm 4.1), safety (Psalm 4.8), refuge (Psalm 5.11) and remember the abundance of His steadfast love (Psalm 4.7). Right now in the absence of my own words, I’m praying out the psalms.....remembering God’s greatness, mercy, grace, and love that is bigger than what our human minds can ever fathom. As I remember who HE is - I know he will meet me and help with the other "life situations" I've been avoiding.

Personal Goals for 2011

2011-01-15T14:17:00.011-08:00

I enjoy the start of a new year. A new beginning. A chance for a new outlook. Hope that “this year” will be better than the year before.

I have five personal goals for 2011:

1. Financial: get car insurance and deposit money into my IRA monthly.

2. Make my one-room living space “feel” more like home. I'm trying to make small adjustments to add a sense of "home." I recently purchased a lamp - which is much better than the florescent overhead light. I don’t have a dresser or a wardrobe, there isn’t enough space. I do have a shelf where I store clothes and food. To add more privacy, my sister Robin gave me the idea to put Velcro on a cloth to drape over the shelf. My friend Anneke helped me hang this cloth I bought a couple years ago in Mozambique. I like how it looks and the privacy it provides!

3. Eat better. I find it hard to cook for just me. I’m also lazy to go to town and buy food. Now I’m trying to make myself cut up fruits and vegetables as soon as I get home from buying them, so they are ready for meals and snacks.

My kitchen (located about a meter to the left of my shelf).

The basin with the dirty dishes in it is my kitchen sink - it's stored under my table along with my two burner hot plate when not in use.

4. Fitness. I want to run a marathon this year. I have one picked out I’d like to do on the 28th of August if I can save up the money needed for travel and accommodations. I’m just scared I’ll say I’m going to do it and won’t (like the time I said I was going to do the master cleanse 10 day detox and ended up eating stake 2 days later : ). I've ran half marathons but never a full marathon.

Motivation is on the wall: bibs from the
9 half marathons I've completed

5. Complete the continuing education units required to renew my Dietetic Registration. In the professional world I am Keri Dodge MS, RD.....not to be confused with Keri Dodge/Manoko Mashitisho (Manoko is my African name) Peace Corps Volunteer turned missionary. I don’t want to lose my registration, thus I need to complete the necessary continuing education credits online this year.

Will keep you posted on my progress as well as the opportunities for humor in the midst of challenges faced!

Same As It Never Was

2011-01-08T11:26:00.011-08:00

The trip to the States was great. Quality time is my main love language for receiving love. Thus, I really enjoyed simply spending time with people who are important to me. The trip back to South Africa went well. I’m always ready to get back ‘home’ to South Africa.....and then it takes me a few days to adjust to life here again.

The last three or four months of 2010 in South Africa were tough. I reached a point where I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be here anymore. I’ve seen so many people come and go, Peace Corps Volunteers, friends, people I care about. I started to ask God “why am I still here?” I complained. I whined. I cried. I asked God “why is there so much relational pain in ministry?” I was corrected by colleagues. I questioned friendships. I questioned trust. I dealt with conflict and God met me.

I left for the States exhausted. I returned encouraged and sure that I belong here. I received a card from a short-term volunteer confirming this stating “I am so glad that you and Ten Thousand Homes have found each other. It is such a good fit for you. I think the other staff need you too."

God showed me I'm still called here. I also still have a lot to learn. He’s not releasing me. I don’t usually stay in one place this long......now that has changed.

We are currently in the midst of a shift as a ministry. We are adjusting our pace. We realize there is more need in Southern Africa than the 12 of us currently on staff can meet. God isn’t asking us to meet every need and neglect our families and private lives. We want to narrow our focus. We want to continue to do more than just feed children a few times a week. We want to follow God’s lead, work more as a team, invest in key relationships, and see lives transformed.

“Same as it never was”......that’s the phrase repeating in my mind as I think and plan for 2011. It’s going to be a different year.......I’m excited to see what’s ahead!

A Christmas Poem (from Malawi)

2010-12-21T14:42:00.006-08:00

Wanted to share a poem written by my friend Wanda. We were in the Peace Corps together and now she is a missionary in Malawi. Here are her words about Christmas......from rural Africa. It made me smile remembering the simplicity of children I know and love.

The flowers are blooming
The air is warm,
They are planting seeds
on every farm.
It doesn't seem like Christmas

There are no lights
There is no tree
There are no presents
For the children to see.
It doesn't feel like Christmas.

There is no "Merry Christmas"
No mangers, no stars.
There are no shepherd boys,
No wise men from afar.
It doesn't seem like Christmas.

The shinning faces of the children here
are the same as everywhere.
There is a difference, I do believe
In what is expected from under the tree.
It is not at all like Christmas.

The children here will run and play
much like any other day.
But when it comes time for them to eat,
They are Oh, so thankful--today they eat meat.
That's what is expected from Christmas.

Wanda Wood 2010

Random Thoughts from a Quiet Place

2010-12-18T12:00:00.010-08:00

Living life. Following the path God takes you on. Learning to submit. Seeking adventure. Making the most of the one life God has given. Marching to a beat different from what your culture tells you is “normal.”

Visiting the States is great. Yet it does awaken thoughts, wants, and desires I don’t always think about in my daily life in South Africa. As I was sorting through stuff I had in storage at my mom’s home yesterday, two things occurred to me. One, why in the world have I been storing old clothes and other items for 3 1/2 years? I mean if clothes didn’t make the cut to join the Peace Corps with me - why did I think that I would want to wear them post Peace Corps?? A couple of years ago my niece sent in an application on my behalf to the T.V. show "What Not to Wear." I wasn't chosen to be on the show - but Madison did have a point about some of the clothes I use to wear. Ugly!

Two, I realized how much I miss having my own apartment. I miss living in more than one room, having a kitchen, and privacy. I then came up with a couple creative ideas to make my room in South Africa feel more like a home.

I’ve encountered interesting conversations about the fact I’m a 30 something single missionary living in Africa. Let’s be honest, the pool of quality Godly men in missions is a very small group. Last year a second cousin asked if I was a lesbian because I wasn’t married. This year a friend just kept asking the same questions over and over when I explained there isn't much of a dating scene where I live. I wanted to give the christian answer “where God calls....he provides” but I figured that would only comfort my fear of this woman possibly judging me. I believe we all have insecurities and areas where we have developed thicker skin. We don’t have a thriving social scene in South Africa - but we have learned to create our own fun, laughter, and entertainment.

Sometimes I do miss the normal American life. I miss coming and going as you please, not having to worry about safety as much, and city life filled with lots of entertainment options. It’s good to be reminded, however, that more “stuff” and choices doesn’t mean that the American life is automatically easier. It’s just different.

Quality Time with Brittany & New Blog Look

2010-12-13T14:39:00.010-08:00

I had a great time last week visiting my friend Brittany in Spokane, WA. I met Brittany in South Africa, March of 2008. Over the past two years, we've become great friends. I have really missed her since she moved back to the States a few months ago!

Brittany is super creative and helped me change the look of my blog. She created the banner and changed the layout. I added a bit more information in the about me section.

It was fun to see her life in the States and hang out with her family. I met the Deniston crew when they visited South Africa last year. I just can't believe I didn't take any photos during my visit!

Thank you Brittany for your continued friendship, encouragement, and honesty!!

Knitting for the Orphaned & Vulnerable

2010-12-12T15:48:00.000-08:00

Last week my friend Mmapula and I met with a group of women at the Rolling Hills Community Church in Lago Vista, Texas. These wonderful ladies refer to themselves as "the Knit Wits." They meet once a week to knit for knit-a-square. Knit-a-square is a charity project that receives crocheted and knitted squares, vests, and hats from all over the world. They make blankets with the squares and distribute them to orphaned and vulnerable children throughout South Africa. The children we work with at Ten Thousand Homes have received blankets from knit-a-square.

Meet the Knit Wits

Mmapula and I shared about life in South Africa, including the AIDS epidemic, and the orphan crisis. The ladies were so excited to hear our stories. I told them how Ten Thousand Homes became involved with knit-a-square and how the process works in South Africa. They want me to contact knit-a-square to see if they can be paired up with Ten Thousand Homes. I'm excited about this potential partnership! It was great to see how much these women love and pray for orphaned and vulnerable children they've never met! I'm thankful for what they are doing. It was a great day!

The package of squares they are mailing to South Africa

All photos were taken by Joe V, who works in partnership with the Knit Wits

My friend Hayley was in charge of distributing the items Ten Thousand Homes received from knit-a-square. Click here to see photos she took of each recipient.

Outdoor Adventures in Austin, TX

2010-12-07T14:25:00.008-08:00

In Austin, Texas this week spending time with my Peace Corps friend Megan (aka Mmapula). A couple of days ago we hung out with Chris and Joey, two friends from our Peace Corps group. We hiked Enchanted Rock. It was a blast! There was lots of laughing, reminiscing, and catching up!

Chris, Joey, Mmapula, and myself

Pausing for a photo opportunity in the cave

Gotta love Chris's facial expressions

Climbing down the rock (photo taken with Mmapula's camera)

On the drive home we stopped in a small town featuring an
amazing display of Christmas lights!

We also met Santa and Mrs. Claus
(we never took a photo like this when we were in the Peace Corps together!)

Meet Daphne

2010-12-04T08:39:00.006-08:00

My friend Kacy just sent me this video she made featuring Daphne, one of my favorite two-year old girls. Daphne's parents are originally from Zimbabwe. They live at our care center in Dwaleni, to protect the house. Earlier this year, Daphne screamed every time she saw white people. Now every time I see her, she comes running with her arms in the air ready to be held so she can give kisses. She's adorable!!

Family Photos in Las Vegas

2010-12-03T13:00:00.003-08:00

Spent the past two weeks in Las Vegas with my sister Tara and her family. My mom flew in from Nebraska and left yesterday. We had a great time!

Tara and Creighton

Me, Creighton, and my mom (Bev Dodge)

Creighton didn't know how he felt about Santa

Tara and Madison putting up their Christmas tree

Why I Work in Africa....

2010-12-02T11:59:00.012-08:00

My Mission Statement:

"Encourage & empower Africans to positively impact orphaned and vulnerable children"

My mission statement describes why I work with Ten Thousand Homes in South Africa. I am passionate about investing in Africans because I believe they will make the greatest impact in the lives of orphaned an vulnerable children. I get excited about Africans serving other Africans. I get excited about encouraging and providing young adults with opportunities to grow and make a difference in their communities.

On December 17th, a school in Gretna, Nebraska, is putting on a fundraiser for a Petros & Elisabeth Kunene and their family (click here to read more about them). A few weeks ago I traveled with four friends (Amanda, Kacy, Lennon, & Mzwandile) to see the Kunene family at their home in Motjane, Swaziland. Lennon and Mzwandile know what it's like to lose a parent and they are using their life experience / gifts to better the lives of children in need. Lennon is on staff with us at Ten Thousand Homes and Mzwandile is the manager of the feeding program we partner with in the community Mbonisweni.

Amanda, me, Kacy, Lennon, and Mzwandile

We had a great time with Petros & Elisabeth and the 13 children. Petros & Elisabeth have 6 of their own children and they've taken in 7 of their nieces and nephews who recently lost their parents. My friend Kacy brought crafts for the children. They colored and sang by candle light (their house doesn't have electricity).

The Kunene's recently started a ministry called Road to Hope. They have a lot of financial needs, but their home is filled with love, joy, faith, and hope. I'm thankful to get to build a relationship with this family. Below is a video my friend Carly B put together for the upcoming fundraiser. The music in the video is the family singing.

Kunene Family from Keri Dodge on Vimeo.

Please pray for the event on 17 December 2010 at the public school in Gretna, Nebraska. Pray it will be a blessing to the Kunene family as well as an opportunity for grade school children to learn about children from another culture. If you would like more information please email me at keridodge@tenthousandhomes.org.

VERVE. Stripping Church. Seeking Life.

2010-11-30T11:58:00.015-08:00

On a few occasions I've said "if I moved back to the States, I'd hope to live in Las Vegas." Seems like a strange statement since many people who live here want to leave. It is a city badly hit with house foreclosures and unemployment. It is known as Sin City - a place where anything goes. I believe it is a place where Jesus would live if He were physically here today. I believe He would be showing compassion and love to strippers, prostitutes, drug dealers, and hurting people.

I've posted in two previous blogs (click here and here) about a church called Verve that was recently planted near the strip. They are a church for people who don't like church. Their mission is to Love God and Love People.

I've listened to all the messages online since Verve officially launched this year. The past two weekends I had the opportunity to attend Verve. I was impressed. It was great to meet their staff. I especially liked that as soon as the sermon was over the song "Intergalactic" by the Beastie Boys played through the loud speakers (again they aren't like just any church : ).

They are doing a series called the Office - focusing on your job. Vince recently spoke on discovering your calling. He said God's calling on your life is always good, perfect, and pleasing (Romans 12:1-3). But it can also be difficult, draining, and depressing. This was a revelation for me! The past couple of months I'm found my calling in South Africa to be difficult and draining. I've asked questions like "shouldn't it be easier?" I have freedom in knowing these challenges are normal! We aren't going to like every aspect of our job all the time.

According to Parker Palmer "Your calling is where your deep gladness meets the world's greatest need." Vince's message reminded me that God has designed each of us for a purpose and wants to use our uniqueness. I'm currently spending time evaluating my strengths and my deep gladness.

I am so thankful for what they are doing at Verve. They have another website http://vervecatalysts.org/ with more information and opportunities for growth. Praying Verve will continue to reach and impact many lives in Las Vegas. If I lived in Vegas - this is the church I'd call home.

Stateside Travel

2010-11-29T10:11:00.002-08:00

Finalized my travel plans over the weekend:

04 Dec - Leaving Las Vegas, heading to Austin
08 Dec - Spokane, WA
11 Dec - Nebraska
26 Dec - Fly back to South Africa

Looking forward to visiting friends/family I haven't seen yet!

When Your Tank is on Empty....

2010-11-25T19:49:00.006-08:00

I’ve been in the States for almost one week. On the long flight here I thought about how God provided this past year. I was thankful for even the little things visiting teams, family, friends, and supporters blessed me with. I was thankful for finishing up the year well. Thankful for the relationships within Ten Thousand Homes.

Since arriving to the States I've been challenged with a couple internal battles. This past week, as I looked around at what other people have I realized I don’t have a lot of material “stuff.” I wondered what next year will bring. In my quiet times, I needed reminded that God is my provider. He will provide for next year - just like He did this year.

The other internal battle I’ve wrestled with is feeling guilty about resting. In the mist of watching a bit of TV and taking few naps I said to my sister “I hope you guys don’t think I’m lazy. I haven’t taken a lot of time off this year but I have worked hard.” When did I become so concerned about others wondering if I work hard or not? The truth is I’m tired!! I need rest and a renewed perspective.

I'm reading a book called Let Your Life Speak, by Parker Palmer. At one point he talks about self care stating: “Self care is never a selfish act - it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer others. Anytime we can listen to our true self and give it the care it requires, we do so not only for ourselves but for the many others whose lives we touch.”

There have been times recently when I’ve believed a lie that I have to keep going, keep giving - even when I don’t want to, even when I have nothing to give. I say I do it all for the sake of serving Jesus - but this type of serving only leads to burnout. Too often we do noble deeds God never asked us to do. You can’t give away what you don’t have. I have to learn how to take care of myself better so I can serve others better.

So for now.... I must embrace rest, self care, and continue to rely on God as my provider. I need filled up again.

Photo Booth With Madison

2010-11-22T07:00:00.001-08:00

I just arrived in Las Vegas, where I am staying with my sister Tara and her family for the Thanksgiving holiday. Yesterday my 13 year old niece Madison and I did our hair and make up together and then posed for a few photos. Madison keeps me laughing that's for sure! It's amazing how fast 13 years has gone....now she's as tall as I am!

House Sitting With Amanda

2010-11-21T12:05:00.006-08:00

The past couples weeks I was house sitting for my friends Rich and Lynn Hodge. I had the pleasure of staying there with Amanda, the Hodges family friend. Amanda came to stay with us in South Africa for a couple of months while her husband is serving in the U.S. Military in Afghanistan.

I had a great time getting to know Amanda and I'm thankful for her friendship. Military wives don't have it easy - I now have a greater respect and insight as to what they go through. Amanda will see her husband again in mid December when they both return to Germany where they are stationed.

The Hodges have a reputation for providing great hospitality. We had big shoes to fill in their absence and enjoyed a hosting a couple parties. Last week we had Pastor Sthembiso, Thuli, and their son Blessing over for dinner. We had a great time surprising Thuli with an early birthday celebration!

Kacy did a great job making the cake!

Kacy, Keri, and Larry Dates

2010-11-12T11:49:00.006-08:00

I use to be an isolator. Discussing feelings or anything deeply personal didn't come naturally to me. At the beginning of this year I felt God was saying this was the year to really embrace a spiritual family. I finally learned what it meant to "do life" with a group of people. I'm slowly learning how to embrace conflict better and be more open and honest in relationships.

I have a friend named Kacy. Kacy has a Master of Science degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. Kacy is an extreme optimist and the loves the author Larry Crabb. Two months ago, she talked me into reading Larry Crabb's book Inside Out. We read one chapter per week and every weekend we go on a "Larry Date" somewhere to discuss the book. I'd recommend this book to anyone who is stuck, or longs for real change, and deeper relationships.

Kacy and me on a "Larry Date" at the botanical gardens a few weeks ago

"Thanks for going there" is a term we use a lot within Ten Thousand Homes / YWAM. I often use the overused term jokingly. "Going there" basically means sharing in a real way - beyond the surface level. I believe we all desire deep, loving, meaningful relationships. Yet there is always a risk in being vulnerable with others. Recently I've really been challenged in relationships......at times I've shut down out of self protection. Other times I haven't responded to in the most loving way.

None of us see the world as it really is. We all see and hear things through our own filters (life experiences, world view, etc) and everyone is struggling with something no matter how small.
Even when it's hard, it's worth it to have deep meaningful relationships. We need to be challenged and to grow. God never meant for us to face pain and struggles in this world alone.

Buy the book Inside Out, by Larry Crabb, read it with someone, and treat yourself to a "Larry date", you won't regret it.

We GET to Do This

2010-11-07T01:00:00.002-07:00

Recently I felt the desire to spend more time interceding for the three communities Ten Thousand Homes partners with and less time discussing the challenges. A couple of days ago, Kacy, Lennon, and myself met on the rock to pray for our communities. The rock is a quiet spot on our property with a breath taking view (see photos below).

As we prayed for each community, we were reminded this is a job we GET to do. God doesn't need me in Africa. It is actually a privilege to partner with Him, to be called to work for His kingdom. We get to work with "the least of these." We get to be the hands and feet of Jesus - a job never to be taken lightly.

I often wonder what life at home is like for each orphaned and vulnerable child we work with. Lots of kids run up to hug you and don't want to let go. Other kids flinch or duck when you offer them a 'high five' or a hug - leaving me to wonder what they face at home.

Recently I told God I'm ready for a change.....that I'm tired of the challenges, frustrations, and endless meetings. I've complained I'm too tired and busy. God's reminded me he didn't call me to here to complain or brag about how busy and tired I am. My complaints don't impress anymore. God's taken me out of a tough season. He's renewed my joy and reminded me lean in on His strength, wisdom, comfort, discernment, and provision. Today I'm thankful......thankful that we GET to do this.

The Faces of Dwaleni, Part 2

2010-11-06T01:00:00.001-07:00

The Faces of Dwaleni, Part 1

2010-11-05T14:34:00.006-07:00

Yesterday the children at the feeding program in Dwaleni seemed needier and hungrier than normal. Hungry for physical touch and love. Perhaps hungry for a place of safety and enjoyment for a few hours. As 158 children lined up, the volunteers served them the meal they spent hours preparing. I enjoyed taking photos with a friend's camera.......capturing moments of simplicity and joy.

The kids pray and sing together before eating

Volunteer, Jillian handing out cups for juice (she knows each child by name)

Volunteer Sofie, handing out juice

The kitchen where the volunteers serve food

Eating together....

Priceless smiles........

Sunday Afternoon Picnic

2010-10-26T13:02:00.007-07:00

The weather is getting warmer as summer approaches. This past Sunday our friend Lyn, who completed our DTS (Discipleship Training School) earlier this year came to visit us. She lives about an hour away from our base. After church we enjoyed a picnic lunch together.

Part of my Ten Thousand Homes Family: Lyn, Stanley, Lennon, & Kacy

Lyn was at a University in Cape Town studying to be a social worker a couple of years ago. When her mother became ill, Lyn returned home to help care for her. Currently, Lyn is looking for a job with the goal of eventually returning to University. Lyn is one of the most direct Africans I know. I appreciate the fact she isn't afraid to tell you what she thinks or feels. I enjoy the time and laughs we get to share together. Praying she finds the right job and continues to seek after all God has for her..........

Learning From Stanley: When to Withdraw

2010-10-16T12:40:00.012-07:00

Have you ever noticed how we westerners often speak of “how busy we are” or what we’ve accomplished in a day's work? It’s as if we associate busyness with our sense of value or purpose. This mentality is quite different from the African mindset.

Stanley is a my African coworker, friend, and brother. Stanley adds wisdom, joy, perspective, as well as MANY other things to our Ten Thousand Homes family. He helps without being asked. He loves God deeply and is a man of great character and integrity. One thing Stanley doesn’t do is walk around acting “busy.” He values people over everyday tasks. He’s not too busy yet he’s fully invested in the work we do. Stanley knows when he needs to withdraw to spend time with God and rest.

Stanley at his best. Photo taken at the feeding program in Dwaleni.

We have a lot of meetings/gatherings. We have a debrief with every outreach team the night before they leave. Last night we had a debrief with the New Hope outreach team. Stanley wasn’t there. He was taking a rest. Did I think he was lazy for not being there? Absolutely not. This is one of the things I admire about Stanley. You see, I attend every meeting and debrief, often out of obligation or fear of what other people would think of me if I didn’t attend. I physically show up for every meeting but I don't always do it with the right heart attitude. Stanley, on the other hand, knows when he needs to withdraw and therefore brings his best attitude when he is present.

I have a lot of respect for Stanley - and I continue to learn from him. After all, God is not that impressed with my busyness. He wants me to withdraw to spend time with Him and it's HIS opinion that matters most.

Monique's Party in Dwaleni

2010-10-14T03:30:00.000-07:00

This week our friend Monique went back to the States for a season. Monique invested a lot of time in Dwaleni, one of the three communities where Ten Thousand Homes works. Last week I attended a party in her honor at the Primary School in Dwaleni. They dressed her up in African attire. She was asked to dance and give a speech in front of all the students and teachers.

The principal giving his speech after Monique danced her
way to the front with the students

Monique with some of the teachers

Monique and some of the kids she worked with

Monique and myself outside the school

It was great to celebrate Monique and see how she positively impacted the teachers and students. I appreciate the relationships she built in Dwaleni. She will be missed!

Remembering A Year Ago.....

2010-10-12T22:30:00.002-07:00

My mom was diagnosed with Breast Cancer on 13 October 2009. It's hard to believe it's been a year since her life drastically changed. On this day, 13 October 2010, I'm happy to report she has finished the treatments and is doing well. Her hair is growing back much curlier than it was before.

Looking good! My parents on a recent holiday

She's doing the things she enjoys again like walking outside, quilting, and visiting grandchildren. Sometimes it is the simple or small moments you miss the most when your world is shaken. I'm thankful she's healthy. I look forward to seeing her again next year.......catching up over a cup of coffee, shopping, or going for a walk......spending quality time, enjoying the simple moments.....

Life Coaching.....

2010-10-12T11:30:00.000-07:00

I've had a Life Coach for almost a year now. Every 2 to 4 weeks I have a skype call with Karen. She helps bring perspective to my random thoughts and everyday life stuff. She's encouraged me to dream. She's taught me about how I'm wired and the perspective/voice I bring to our work in South Africa. I can't tell you how often I'll mention something I'm processing and one of my friends will say "have you talked to Karen about this?"

Karen is a part of the Growth Resourcing Group (GRG team) from Texas that serves as our apostolic covering for the ministry. Last week Karen came to South Africa with the GRG team for their apostolic visit. At first, I was nervous to talk to her face to face. Although she knows a lot about me I don't actually see her when we talk through skype. I eventually overcame this nervousness and had a great time talking, sharing, and enjoying her company.

I learned more about her and she was able to see my life first hand. She helped bring clarity and showed me the areas in my life where I need to grow, continue to pray, and have faith. I wish I had the words to express what a huge impact she's made in my life. I am so grateful she was here......

Samkelo and Bongani

2010-10-09T23:00:00.003-07:00

A couple weeks ago we received very sad news. Two thirteen year old twin brothers, Samkelo and Bongani, who regularly attend the feeding program and church in Mbonisweni, lost everything to a house fire. They were living in a shack with their mom and were in the process of building a proper house. Unfortunately, however, most of their financial resources burned up in the fire. My friend Kacy stayed with these boys' relatives when she did her community stay during her DTS (Discipleship Training School). Kacy considers Samkelo and Bongani part of her family.

After learning about the fire, a member of Kacy's church in Texas donated money to buy the boys clothes. Last week Kacy, Lennon, Stanley, and myself took the boys and their aunt Zodwa to the mall shopping.

Bongani, Kacy, Samkelo, baby Fiona, and Zodwa

The boys didn't know they were getting new clothes until we arrived at the mall.
They don't speak a lot of English so Lennon translated for Kacy.

We had a great time helping the boys pick out new clothes. I love that both boys call Kacy "Kacley!" Kacy took them to a restaurant and it was their first time ever to eat out. I was reminded how I too often take little things for granted. I'm thankful to be a part of a group of people blessing and noticing two boys who experienced so much loss. Please pray Samkelo, Bongani, and their mother will receive the necessary finances to finish the house they've been building. If you would like to help this family you can email Kacy at kacychaffin@gmail.com. Thank you.

Meet Mona

2010-10-09T09:34:00.011-07:00

Mona and baby Fiona - who belongs to one of our volunteers in Mbonisweni

A few months ago we decided as a team to improve how we work with short-term volunteers. We decided individual volunteers staying a month or longer need to have a work leader and mentor during their time with us. We spent a lot of time praying about how to host teams and individuals well without over working ourselves.

Mona, who is from Germany, was the first volunteer to under go our new process. Mona was very quiet when she first arrived, but within a short amount of time she fit right into our Ten Thousand Homes family. She didn't come to South Africa with her own agenda, she just came to serve with us.

At one point I asked Mona "what surprises you about being here?" She told me she had been to South Africa before so our work in the communities wasn't anything new to her. What surprised her was our Ten Thousand Homes community life. We live and work together on the same campus and she was surprised to see people reading their Bibles and praying for one another on a daily basis. She explained that her experience in Germany was that faith and going to church is very separate from daily life. I felt encouraged to hear how we do life impacted Mona.

Over the past month, Mona became a Christian, started to read the Bible for herself, and began to hear from God. We were so blessed to have her with us. She definitely left a different person than she was when she arrived. I'm thankful for her friendship and pray that she will continue to grow in her new relationship with God.

NSF: Dance Party at the Hodges

2010-09-25T23:00:00.002-07:00

NSF stands for Non Stop Fun. Last weekend our friends Rich and Lynn Hodge hosted an NSF dinner party at their house. Three Americans from the YWAM Swaziland based joined us. The rule of the evening was you had to dance before you could eat. I hadn't laughed so much in a long time! It was a great night!

Mona (a short term volunteer from Germany), Kacy, and myself

Monique taught us the dance to the song Crank Dat Soulja Boy (Superman)
by Soulja Boy. This is Rich giving the dance his all!

This dancer shall remain nameless, even though she did a great dance
to the entire song Mr Robato by Styx

The video isn't the greatest quality, but here is the best dancer of the evening,
our little brother Lennon Malambe

Malambe and Michael Jackson from Keri Dodge on Vimeo.

Blessing's Birthday Party

2010-09-25T00:42:00.009-07:00

A couple of days ago Sthembiso and Thuli's son Blessing celebrated his first birthday! It was a great party at the church where many of us call home.

Kacy made Blessing his own cake and he wasn't sure what to do with it at first

Blessing posing with his guests. They were waving in response to a "hip hip hooray"

Blessing dancing while his friend Cleo watches

Sthembiso and Thuli: two of the most loving parents I know...

Hope, Newness, and A Different Direction

2010-09-20T09:46:00.009-07:00

I haven’t blogged very consistently the past few weeks. I recently became very tired in the midst of saying goodbye to three friends (Hayley, Brittany, and David Song), helping host outreach teams, and doing other daily jobs within Ten Thousand Homes. I was also frustrated as I looked at my schedule and realized a lot of what I was doing was fulfilling needs. They were jobs that “someone” needed to do. They weren’t necessarily jobs that awakened my passions.

I believe I need to serve and be willing to do duties that aren’t always so “fun.” At the end of the day none of us may feel called to cook or wash dishes, but it still needs to be done. The tricky part is finding joy in the mundane and finding room to operate more out of my gifts and talents.

I recently took a spiritual gifting test. The results irritated me so much I took a different test. Much to my disappointment, I ended up with the same results from the two different tests. It appears as though I have the gifts of Mercy and Exhortation. When I told my friend Kacy I was irritated about having those two (what I perceived as “wimpy”) gifts, she lovingly responded with “you are weird.” Perhaps that is true......but it did give me a reason as to why some of the job duties I’ve done out of need have led to frustration.

I enjoy connecting in small group settings with Africans. Three times a week I “gym” (term used for exercise) at 6:30 am with an African friend. For me that time isn’t as much about me getting in shape as it is listening and encouraging. Every two or three weeks Kacy and I take Pastor Sthembiso’s wife Thuli (and her son Blessing) some where for a “ladies day.” We may drink coke, enjoy meal together, or give each other manicures. It is an opportunity to spend time getting to know Thuli, learn more about the challenges she faces as a Pastor’s wife, understand and encourage her.

Every Tuesday I work with three volunteers from Mbonisweni who are in charge of buying and cooking the food for the feeding program. Today my colleagues John and Zach told me what I am doing with them is more than adding up receipts and counting money. They encouraged me by saying I was “empowering them” and “discipling them.” I guess I never thought about it that way.

I believe I’m coming out of a dry season of being tired and frustrated. I've reached a point where my daily duties may be changing. As I continue to pray for newness, hope, and God’s wisdom/direction, I’m excited to use my gifts to help empower and disciple our African volunteers who pour out so much for the orphaned and vulnerable children.

Spoiled?

2010-09-15T13:08:00.003-07:00

Living in community is a unique experience that I have learned to embrace. A lot of people stop by my room on a daily basis. It's not uncommon to hear our workers shouting outside my room or playing music on their cell phones when they arrive at 7 am every morning. I welcome visits from Arielle and Zoe as well as colleagues/friends who need something or just want to chat.

Last week the Prices were in town and their dog Austin was whimpering outside my door. He was cold and wanted inside. He loves to lay in front of the space heater at his house so I turned on my space heater to warm him up. We enjoy having him around the campus.

Coming to Terms With Changes....

2010-08-31T13:47:00.008-07:00

I bought a car this week. Yes, I should be excited. Maybe the excitement will come as I eventually bask in the freedom of coming and going at my leisure. But for now, it just feels strange. My friend Brittany is moving back to the States next week, and she sold her car to me. It is actually an answer to prayer. My family recently sold the car I use to own in the States. Brittany sold me her car for the exact amount of money in which that car sold.

Having a car in South Africa means something different than having a car in the States. Here it is much more a symbol of status and money than it is in the States. Cars and fuel are much more expensive here. So I guess I'm still wrapping my mind around owning a car after living here for over three years without one. I'd also rather have Brittany stay than own her car.

Brittany is one of the most encouraging people in my life. She helped pioneer Ten Thousand Homes in South Africa. When we first met in March 2008, neither one of us knew how we felt about the other person. She thought I was this hard core Peace Corps volunteer straight from the village (I secretly liked that she thought this about me). I thought she was a super Christian really excited to work with YWAM and would intimidate us all with her biblical knowledge. Oh man did have a lot to learn about Brittany! She challenged my faith. Through watching her, I learned how to be more intentional in relating to people we work and live with.

Maybe eventually I'll look at Brittany's car, remember our fun memories of loud music, car dancing, great conversations, and be able to call it my car. But for now I can't see past next week when she leaves. Brittany will be greatly missed.

An Afternoon With Arielle

2010-08-28T00:25:00.014-07:00

A couple of days ago, I volunteered to take Zach and Annekes' oldest daughter Arielle with me to town so Anneke could have a little down time. Lennon also joined us.

I needed to stop in a photo store so Lennon took Arielle into the grocery store. When I found them in the store Arielle was eating a cookie. Confused as to where she got it, I looked at Lennon and he said “I don’t know.....she just took it.” Free samples don’t exist in this grocery store and since we didn’t know where the cookie came from we decided to shop quickly. As we shopped Arielle saw a box of maxi pads and shouted “telephones!”

Our last stop was for ice cream. I thought I ordered Arielle a small ice cream cone but she was given a LARGE cone dipped in chocolate. In a former professional life, I was known as Keri Dodge, M.S. R.D. (Master of Science, Registered Dietitian). As I watched Arielle smile and eat the ice cream I remembered why I never really fit in with other Dietitian colleagues in the States - this scene would have horrified many of them!

While Arielle enjoyed the sugar rush, I asked Lennon to watch her so I could run into another store. When I returned Arielle was laying on the bench, almost asleep. I asked Lennon “she didn't eat all of that ice cream did she?” He said “no, I finished it because she complained of a stomach ache.” “Great,” I thought “we are the worst babysitters ever.” Arielle woke up from her brief nap (perhaps a sugar hang over) shortly after we arrived home.

Arielle and Lennon

Considering some of the looks of confusion and stares we got from people in town, some might have thought the three of us were a family. Oh boy! Lennon recently told me about loosing both of his parents as a teenager and how he never thought he'd ever have white friends. He said he figured he'd work for white people but never saw himself going to places like church or the mall with them. For reasons like these, I welcome the stares and the opportunities to challenge cultural and racial norms. Our afternoon with Arielle also provided much needed laughter.

A Trying Week

2010-08-21T02:14:00.011-07:00

It’s been a trying week. As relationships in the communities where we work deepen, things can get a bit more complicated. As many of you know, there are sides of the work here that wouldn’t make good blog posts. There are difficult decisions, conflicts, and misunderstandings that happen naturally as relationships grow.

A couple of nights ago, I was informed of some harsh words spoken about me in one of our communities. It was a personal attack towards me as a result of a misunderstanding/miscommunication. It was extremely painful to hear.......at one point I thought “okay you can stop talking anytime.” These words cut deep. I decided whoever came up with the phrase “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” was just wrong. I wanted to enter the ‘self righteous’ realm of my brain and think about all “I’ve” given up to be here. Then God quickly convicted me to stop thinking that way and reminded me how much I didn’t fully enjoy my previous career.

I woke up the next morning at 5:30 and the first thought in my mind was “pray.” Of course being the mature person I am I then thought “I don’t want to.” Since I couldn’t go back to sleep I got up, made coffee, and God reminded me of two verses.

Ephesians 6.12 “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” I was reminded all the hurtful things that happened this week were part of a spiritual battle.

The other verse was Philippians 4.8 “Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” I don’t think this verse means that I shouldn’t address the hurt, or pretend nothing happened. Conflict is not a bad thing. I was reminded to seek the best in this situation and not let bitterness root in my heart.

Later in the day our missions team had a meeting and we discussed these recent events. I left the meeting feeling very encouraged with the words shared by John, Carla, Stanley, and Zach. God is in this situation. We are united as a team, and there will be follow up conversations with others on Monday. I’d appreciate your prayers for the upcoming conversations. I’m not ready to walk away......I’m ready to own up to the part I didn’t do well...ask for forgiveness......listen.....and move forward.....

Quality Time Outdoors

2010-08-15T13:17:00.014-07:00

Toward the end of last week, I felt in a bit of a funk. I felt bored with the activities that are a part of my normal life here and needed to get out and do something different. It was time to be outdoors! Saturday morning I woke up at 5:30 am hiked Legogote Mountain with Stanley, the Hodges, Peter - a guy from Scotland, and a team visiting from California. Stanley led the hike and Lynn Hodge fed us her homemade cinnamon rolls afterward at her house.

View from the top of the mountain

During breakfast we talked with the team about popular styles in California and dating. Yes, random topics. I realized I am really out of the loop about life in the states and South Africa feels like home to me. When we talked about how much money Americans spend on dating, Stanley (the only African in the room) said Americans spend too much money going out on dates. I agreed and said I'd be okay with with a date consisting of cold drink (coke), chocolate, and just sitting outside enjoying a good conversation. The response from the others was "you've lived in Africa too long." We laughed and then I remembered I probably enjoyed simplicity and quality time with people even before living in South Africa.

Today after church Kacy, Lennon, and myself went to the Botanical Gardens in Nelspruit. It was another great day to be outside. We walked around, laughed, and talked.

Kacy, Lennon, and myself

When we arrived home Lennon said "thanks Keri for today, I needed that." I smiled and said "me too Lennon." Part of the funk I've been in is out of sadness toward great friends leaving soon. However, in the midst of my sadness and uncertainty, God has given me new friendships and is deepening existing relationships......for that I am thankful.

Bay Area Community Church

2010-08-13T03:39:00.013-07:00

We see a lot outreach teams and short-term volunteers come and go. There is a lot of work that goes into hosting teams and individuals. Hosting visitors involves balancing our work life and family/personal time. Sometimes I get the balance right. Other times I invest too little time into visitors because I'm too focused on the "tasks" that need to be done (cooking, scheduling, driving, etc). Some teams forget the property where we work is also our home, and I can be the one who tells them to be quiet late at night. It's often hard to see so many people come and go. As soon as you get close, they leave......and then the setting at our base changes once again.

This past week we had the pleasure of hosting a team from Kacy's home church in Houston, Texas. I had the best time with them. Being with them didn't feel like "work." They were very concerned about how "we" the people working with Ten Thousand Homes were doing. They encouraged me. For ten days there was a lot of late night conversations, laughing (to the point of crying a few times), and raw honesty about ministry, Africa, relationships, and life in general. I'm very thankful to have met them and know it was the start of lasting friendships. Things seem a bit boring since they left......but I have a feeling we will meet again.

Before church last week: Alyssa, Kendall, me, Kacy, and Carly

photo by Carly Brennecke
(a great friend and likely future member of Ten Thousand Homes)

The TTH Kitchen.....

2010-08-07T23:00:00.002-07:00

We currently don't have just one person in charge of our kitchen at Ten Thousand Homes. It is a team effort to create menus, plan meals, purchase food, and help cook and clean up meals for visiting outreach teams. Although it can be a bit stressful at times, I've enjoyed working with Monique, Anneke, Stanley, Kacy, and Lennon. We make a good team. There is always room for laughing, loud music, story telling, and dancing in our kitchen.

Myself with our newest staff members Lennon and Kacy

Jessica Vigg, a friend I was in the Peace Corps with
made the Nelson Mandela apron I'm wearing...love it

Cooking is not a huge passion of mine. However, I like the organizing side of working in the kitchen as well as time spent working with friends.

Reptiles

2010-08-07T04:46:00.006-07:00

Here are some photos I took yesterday while Brittany and I visited a near by Reptile Park. I found the experience creepy yet fascinating.

Black Mamba

Green Mamba

Puff Adder

Snouted Cobra

Crocodiles